"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Can't argue with that logic.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
1. Your a wuss to buy her a drink
2. You need to "buy" the girl to have just to SPEAK to you
3. You sound like you prob go for *****s on the street
4. She will "use" you
5. Big chance she will consider you as a friend
6. You will show that you have no willpower
7. It shows that you are AFC.
8. Guys with no confidence and no looks buy girls drinks.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
*sigh* do I really have to go over this again?
Buying a girl a drink is not a cop out nor does it make you AFC, thre are litterally tons of factors that go into it. I really don't have time to address your little list, but I would say 7 of 8 things there definately do not apply to me.
I don't know what things are like for you guys over in south africa but this is a whole different world, an I am riding an entirely different wave from yours.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
But I would say that I'm unsucessful either. I know when I have an in with a girl sometimes long before I go over or sometimes it's just moments into me breaking into a convo with a girl.
Conversely I know when I have an uphill battle ahead of me (after introducing myself) at which time I'll usually weigh my options and determine whether or not my time would be best spent somewhere else or I want to soldier it out.
It's not like this happen to me over night, It's not a gift. The experiences I've had over the years have some what honed my instincts about the women I meet.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Why? They are pickup lines and pickup lines dont work in today's society
NUMBER 1 might work because its ****y and funny but the other 2 wont, trust me on that, Try number 1 and if it doesnt work after 5 attemps then dont do it again cos it obv aint ever gonna work.
REMEMBER: pickup lines are for loosers. USE THE DON JUAN APPROACH.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Like I said its not about the drink, its about the guesture. You're willing to make a little sacrifice just to talk to them even for just a moment. Not all of them are out just to see what chump they can get to buy them drinks. Usually I'll know If I have a shot with a girl before I go in and buy them a drink. Sometimes I'm wrong and I lost, what $7 dollars at the most.
I just have feelings, it really doesn't matter what I do to get a girl to talk to me, I'll get in one way or the other but If I buy a girl a drink I usually have good a pretty positive outlook on the situation. The girl has been looking at me for an extended period of time or smiling at me or talking to her friend and pointing at me, or sometimes I just flat out know that I'm in.
It's game there are some intangibles.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
The issue is risk vs reward, If I see a nice girl who's drink is more then half empty and she's giving me the look I see very little risk and very high reward...It's as simple as that.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I am so done with this thread so if you want to talk further about why I'm a definate expetion to the rule then I'm going to suggest the same thing aequitas said and tell you to PM me whenever you like.
Stick a fork in me...I'm done.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.