UPDATE

[quentin]

ok I'm giving you some news because it feels good to be able to express myself somewhere.


She's a real f*ing b**.


I'm so angry, women are demons, I mean every word of that.


tell me about your lives and your advice, I'm incredibly angry"

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Her goal is now to get under your skin every chance she gets. She succeeded. You can either allow to keep succeeding or you can block her and not have to worry about it anymore.

 

[Lotus Effect]

ok I'm giving you some news because it feels good to be able to express myself somewhere.


She's a real f*ing b**.


I'm so angry, women are demons, I mean every word of that.


tell me about your lives and your advice, I'm incredibly angry"

That’s a road to Incel or MGTOW my man.

Better watch out.

Women are not demons.
They are nothing but a mirror.

Your reflection put straight to your face.

you get what you project.
You get what you see in yourself

You have to learn to love yourself first
Find your way. Find your passion. Find yourself
Women will come naturally then

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

ok I'm giving you some news because it feels good to be able to express myself somewhere.


She's a real f*ing b**.


I'm so angry, women are demons, I mean every word of that.


tell me about your lives and your advice, I'm incredibly angry"

I don't think you really mean "Women are demons" so much as "Women unleash YOUR demons." As such, women (I'd wager to say ONE WOMAN) have (has) the ability to control you.

I'll give nod to the possibility that she could in fact be a 'bvictch,' and if that is true, then you're not going to see any good come from being around her, no?

It's ok to have anger and it's ok to vent frustrations, just be mindful of your surroundings and don't let that anger make you do things or say things you'll regret. Even here on SS where you are among people who try to listen and advise.

 

[inquisitor]

Life is not Yin and Yang.

Do you think men are angels? I don't think so.

Is it alright to be angry? Yes, it is.

Are you directing your anger towards something productive for yourself, and for the woman/women that you think deserves your productive energy? Because I sure as hell hope so.

Better think about either of these: whether she's probably decided you are not worth the time, or whether you're lacking in something.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Not sure of the context for why you would be saying such things, but it was suggested that you go no-contact for various reasons. The main point is that, as per Rollo Tomassi’s Seventh Rule, time and effort are always better spent developing relationships with new, fresh prospective women than attempting to reconstruct a failed one.

I’m surprised that someone who has had more than 60 sexual partners is having such a hard time moving on and/or having such toxic thoughts.

 

[Gamisch]

Not sure of the context for why you would be saying such things, but it was suggested that you go no-contact for various reasons. The main point is that, as per Rollo Tomassi’s Seventh Rule, time and effort are always better spent developing relationships with new, fresh prospective women than attempting to reconstruct a failed one.

I’m surprised that someone who has had more than 60 sexual partners is having such a hard time moving on and/or having such toxic thoughts.

60 is nothing.

You can have 60 sexual relationships but yet no experience dealing with women long term.

 

[Gamisch]

So.let me get this right;

You broke up with her. And then found our she might've been moving on perhaps even before the break up.

Now you're STILL talking to her? What makes you lash out like this?

Cut ALL contact. Delete her number and empty the bin that contains deleted files. Unfollow her, and suck it up. No W here bruh ..only L's...

 

[crowolf]

Now you have the best opportunity to use your angry energy to build yourself and succeed in life, unfolding your potential.

Bitterness is useless and you'll only lose moments to feel good about life and move forward.

Prove her wrong. "Success is the best revenge".

 

[inquisitor]

It's always "the pu§§y's just too good" with these ones.

 

[Clockwerk50]

60 is nothing.

You can have 60 sexual relationships but yet no experience dealing with women long term.

Exactly, that’s my point. Even with 60 sexual partners, you’d expect someone to have experienced multiple ghostings, stage-5 clingers, lack of effort, vindictive behavior, oneitis, breakups, rejection, letting themselves go, cheating, and all the other typical relationship headaches, as well as the good stuff.

Even though I don’t have anywhere near that many partners I’ve experienced all of the above. That is why I am shocked.

 

[quentin]

That’s a road to Incel or MGTOW my man.

Better watch out.

Women are not demons.
They are nothing but a mirror.

Your reflection put straight to your face.

you get what you project.
You get what you see in yourself

You have to learn to love yourself first
Find your way. Find your passion. Find yourself
Women will come naturally then

No, I don't entirely agree; I was more than fair to her

 

[quentin]

Not sure of the context for why you would be saying such things, but it was suggested that you go no-contact for various reasons. The main point is that, as per Rollo Tomassi’s Seventh Rule, time and effort are always better spent developing relationships with new, fresh prospective women than attempting to reconstruct a failed one.

I’m surprised that someone who has had more than 60 sexual partners is having such a hard time moving on and/or having such toxic thoughts.

I'm not looking to have any contact with her, and I've blocked her on Instagram.

Her family still wants to see me because I'm a good person.

I gave it a 60 simply because I’m a little better than average; I’ve experienced sadness before—this isn’t the first time. Another reason I’m not doing great is the phase I’m going through right now; I needed some support.

 

[quentin]

So.let me get this right;

You broke up with her. And then found our she might've been moving on perhaps even before the break up.

Now you're STILL talking to her? What makes you lash out like this?

Cut ALL contact. Delete her number and empty the bin that contains deleted files. Unfollow her, and suck it up. No W here bruh ..only L's...

I know, man, I've already done all that I even deleted the photos—but it's still tough, bro. That's all.

 

[quentin]

Exactly, that’s my point. Even with 60 sexual partners, you’d expect someone to have experienced multiple ghostings, stage-5 clingers, lack of effort, vindictive behavior, oneitis, breakups, rejection, letting themselves go, cheating, and all the other typical relationship headaches, as well as the good stuff.

Even though I don’t have anywhere near that many partners I’ve experienced all of the above. That is why I am shocked.

Are you implying that I don't learn from my mistakes?

 

[Barrister]

OP - had you followed everyone’s advice before, which basically boiled down to go to NC and not speak to her, there would be no “update” for you to give at all. The beginning stages are tough no doubt. Trust in the process that it gets better with time.

The quickest ways this comes off the rails is by engaging with her. And that includes her family.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Are you implying that I don't learn from my mistakes?

When you say things like “women are demons” and call her a “*****,” it makes it seem like you might still be in contact with her, still know what she’s up to, or didn’t expect things to turn out this way. So no, I’m just surprised that someone who claims to have slept with that many women hasn’t experienced something like this before, has such toxic thoughts, or would be having such a hard time moving on from a single outcome. That’s what makes me a bit skeptical about that number or the method of how you acquired it.

Regardless, I’m just a random person on the internet expressing my opinion out loud, so I could be wrong. If you’re not doing great during this phase, it might help to focus on working on your personal issues and taking your mind off the situation.You can also post in the NC thread to vent. I’m sure people there will help you out.

Hope everything turns out well.

 

[quentin]

When you say things like “women are demons” and call her a “*****,” it makes it seem like you might still be in contact with her, still know what she’s up to, or didn’t expect things to turn out this way. So no, I’m just surprised that someone who claims to have slept with that many women hasn’t experienced something like this before, has such toxic thoughts, or would be having such a hard time moving on from a single outcome. That’s what makes me a bit skeptical about that number or the method of how you acquired it.

Regardless, I’m just a random person on the internet expressing my opinion out loud, so I could be wrong. If you’re not doing great during this phase, it might help to focus on working on your personal issues and taking your mind off the situation.You can also post in the NC thread to vent. I’m sure people there will help you out.

Hope everything turns out well.
[/CITATION]

I experienced this type of sensation with 3 breaths, the 3rd being this one.
I'm just super disappointed that she zaps me like that. I don't understand well, and the search for answers to these questions torments me that's all

 

[quentin]

When you say things like “women are demons” and call her a “*****,” it makes it seem like you might still be in contact with her, still know what she’s up to, or didn’t expect things to turn out this way. So no, I’m just surprised that someone who claims to have slept with that many women hasn’t experienced something like this before, has such toxic thoughts, or would be having such a hard time moving on from a single outcome. That’s what makes me a bit skeptical about that number or the method of how you acquired it.

Regardless, I’m just a random person on the internet expressing my opinion out loud, so I could be wrong. If you’re not doing great during this phase, it might help to focus on working on your personal issues and taking your mind off the situation.You can also post in the NC thread to vent. I’m sure people there will help you out.

Hope everything turns out well.

I experienced this type of sensation with 3 breaths, the 3rd being this one.
I'm just super disappointed that she zaps me like that. I don't understand well, and the search for answers to these questions torments me that's all

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I experienced this type of sensation with 3 breaths, the 3rd being this one.
I'm just super disappointed that she zaps me like that. I don't understand well, and the search for answers to these questions torments me that's all

She doesn't do anything. You are doing it to yourself by allowing it to continue happening. Stop blaming her and take the responsibility for your own inadequacies and mindset issues that you clearly need to work on on your own, without jumping into another relationship right away.