Update with the girl that cheated with me on her bf

[TheGambino]

We had cex last week, crazy wild cex, better then any of my plates or past plates the last years.

Both been silent for 5 days.

Today:

I texted her:

Hey call me later ok.

She replies: Ill call in 30 mins.

She calls.

We had a fun convo for about 25mins, talking about fun stuff.

(she spent this weekend with her boyfriend)

Then

So you called just for this? to chat.. or

Me: Yeah, just chilling, but you could come by sometime this week.
Her: I'm busy the upcoming week but I dont know if that's a good idea... You know, I feel guilt and it's not fair for you.
Me: Don't worry, I have no expectations and I'll be discrete about it.
Her: Yeahh I'm so glad about that but I'm not sure how I will feel after that so...
Me: Ok, well no problem.
Her: You know, if I see you at school or downtown, we could hang, I dont know if we could be friends though or chill, i just need to think about it more. Your a cool Guy You know.
Her: I did this with my last boyfriend too, I cheated on him and kept a fvckbuddy (in other words) and I don't think I want that anymore.
Me: Ok yeah, I understand.
Her: Im glad, I was afraid you would become mad.
Her: Its really not You Its me...
Me: Nah, I'm not like that. Im not that type of guy. I thought about it and I only want to have fun and get together (she knows I mean cex) and I don't expect anything more...
Her: Yeah, ill think about it some more..
Me: Ok no problem, well goodnight dudududu.

Basically shes blowing me off. Well I think I did a good job on the responses though.

This is a NC and maybe a hook up chance when I randomly run intoo her again sometime when were both drunk again.

Share your thoughts.

I maybe should of played iT better on being more of a challenge but Im not sure

 

[Glassguy]

I would have never texted her after she blew your last attempts off.

I personally don't think you should contact her again. Doesn't seem to be much in it for you at this point y t she still gets attention and validation. Time to walk.

 

[TheGambino]

Why would you emotionally invest in a woman who has a boyfriend and is cheating on him with you?

Hook up with her.

 

[marmel75]

Ok that's her way of saying it was a one time thing and she isnt leaving her boyfriend...at least not now.

Play it cool and leave her alone...if things change she will contact you trust me.

 

[TheGambino]

Ok that's her way of saying it was a one time thing and she isnt leaving her boyfriend...at least not now.

Play it cool and leave her alone...if things change she will contact you trust me.

Cool. Last question bro’s.

If I see her at school (going to happen). Say hi and go about my business right? No smoking a cig together just on the move I guess.

 

[marmel75]

Cool. Last question bro’s.

If I see her at school (going to happen). Say hi and go about my business right? No smoking a cig together just on the move I guess.

Play it cool...do whatever. Act normal.

 

[Billtx49]

Her: I'm busy the upcoming week but I dont know if that's a good idea...

Basically shes blowing me off

If this continues, and it may not, you’re nothing more than a side piece for her unless her situation changes. Accept it and don’t expect the kind of attention you would be getting from a regular plate unless you start getting it from her…

 

[Thorninmyside]

Leave her to marinate but don't be surprised if you get a booty call when the boyfriend isn't paying attention. Once a ho...