“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Update to the butt grab on female DJ

Q-Pid

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Shouldn't grab buts - only works on sluts. Most of the time it bounces off ***** Shields.

You've got to act dominant when problems arise. In this instance you could have joked about it, or claimed not to have noticed. "I was aiming for another girls ass but yours got in the way." OR offer her your ass and say she can grab it to "even things out". You can't act confrontational, as that's alloing her to control the situation. Just tease her about it.

If you play ball with her though, you will get served.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Swoop
For those who follow my butt grab incident on my one-itis.

Well, I have to confess... I was wrong. We see each other at work and I went up to talk to her, then she looks at me and said "I am mad at you." Of course I play dumb but I know where she is getting at.. so I asked "For what?" She responded, "Grabbing my ass the other night." Oh well.. I didn't know what to say after this. point, I was like damn.. my bad. I apologize to her and said I was sorry... I told her I had a few shots of acohol that night which is true but still it is wrong. Anyways, after my apologies, she still said "I'm still mad at you." She has been quite silent around me now.

I guess I screwed up. I have ZERO chance with her now.

Now I feel like the biggest jerk.
"its better to be an ******* to be nice guy "
I can see the truth of this quote when i read posts like yours :(
 
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