"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Update to the butt grab on female DJ

Q-Pid

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2005
Messages
526
Reaction score
3
Shouldn't grab buts - only works on sluts. Most of the time it bounces off ***** Shields.

You've got to act dominant when problems arise. In this instance you could have joked about it, or claimed not to have noticed. "I was aiming for another girls ass but yours got in the way." OR offer her your ass and say she can grab it to "even things out". You can't act confrontational, as that's alloing her to control the situation. Just tease her about it.

If you play ball with her though, you will get served.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

RaWBLooD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2005
Messages
998
Reaction score
0
Age
45
Location
depends
Originally posted by Swoop
For those who follow my butt grab incident on my one-itis.

Well, I have to confess... I was wrong. We see each other at work and I went up to talk to her, then she looks at me and said "I am mad at you." Of course I play dumb but I know where she is getting at.. so I asked "For what?" She responded, "Grabbing my ass the other night." Oh well.. I didn't know what to say after this. point, I was like damn.. my bad. I apologize to her and said I was sorry... I told her I had a few shots of acohol that night which is true but still it is wrong. Anyways, after my apologies, she still said "I'm still mad at you." She has been quite silent around me now.

I guess I screwed up. I have ZERO chance with her now.

Now I feel like the biggest jerk.
"its better to be an ******* to be nice guy "
I can see the truth of this quote when i read posts like yours :(
 
Top