"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update on the female, advice needed

Porky

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I'm a major AFC...or RAFC, if you wish. Luckily, I seem to be weeks ahead of some of the other people on this thread, because I'm outgoing/friendly by nature and saying hi to somebody doesn't intimidate me.

Anyway, there's this girl. Actually, there are two.

Girl A and I have been friends since mid-summer, and before it was always me who initiated contact/a get together. However, on weds night (no school thurs/friday, hurricane) she approached me about hanging out, then ditched me. I got a little annoyed, told her so, then left to be with friends my age (she's one year younger).

Anyway, she has her own group of friends who don't know me well, except for one (M) who I think has a thing for me. We met roughly two weeks ago, and since then there's been major eye contact. Anyway, on thursday afternoon M calls me up. A is at her house, and they want me to come over to hang out with them. While I wanted to, I figured that it would be prudent not to go, so I said I had plans with another friend or two (I had tentative plans). They begged me for a few minutes, we chatted, and I hung up.

Once again, no huge deal. Last night I had no power, and I'm sitting in my gazebo at around 8 when M comes up (A had told her where I live) and asks to borrow some eggs. She was at A's house cooking something. Now, A lives one street over from me, and had any number of neighbors with power who would have had eggs. M also said she and A had wanted me to come over, but A's little sister would have told on them.

Thoughts? And how to approach this?
 

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I should add that I tentatively tried a little bit of kino on M, and she didn't pull away. She actually looked up and smiled at me. While she didn't return it, she wasn't in a position to.
 

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You are overcomplicating things.

NEVER, in your statement, have you said the phrase: "I want">

Who cares what these girls want? What do YOU want?

If you are attracted, invite one of them over and have fun. If not, just be nice and pollitely refuse any offers. That's it.

Stop telling us what's going on with them, and tell us what YOU want so we can help you achieve it.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
While I wanted to
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actually, acdc is right, listen to him. he's a wise man. wait hes not a man yet. but hes wise. listen to acdc. i dont mean the band either. well i'm not saying they're a bad band but listen to the acdc that told you what to do, and maybe also the band. you'll have to ask acdc about that.
 
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