"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update on situation last week

Fr0st

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Some of you may remember my last thread. Where I basically made too many mistake to recover the situation and redeem myself

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223310

However she recently hit me up after I went NC for nearly a week. Just a Radom obvious question of if I worked on a certain day.

At work she went from rushing away when I'm near to actually saying hi.
Since then she's also been liking my FB status when I chat with others.

Lastly today she kept lingering around the kitchen where I work. I had to ask her a question about something work related & she instantly went from looking down and grouchy to normal and kinda happy.

I went back to NC basically not saying anything to her when sh comes around.

Should I keep doing this or is it enough? Keep in mind she's mentioned being very shy& it shows.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Talk to other girls dude. Mistakes were made. Painfully so. And just be more social and talkative to OTHER people in general. Not girls specifically (although that can help too). Still don't talk to her. You are a man so you don't need her.
 

Zarky

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Fr0st said:
At work she went from rushing away when I'm near to actually saying hi.
Since then she's also been liking my FB status when I chat with others.

Lastly today she kept lingering around the kitchen where I work. I had to ask her a question about something work related
Jesus christ not another guy getting gaga about a chick at work. There should be a sticky saying, "Don't get physically or emotionally engaged with co-workers. Ever. For any reason."

yeesh
 

pyros

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she seems happier because you stopped contacting her, so she doesnt think any longer you're a creep. Anyway, this doesnt not mean anything 'romantic'.

Just talk to her like you would to anyone.
 
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