"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Update on situation last week

Fr0st

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Some of you may remember my last thread. Where I basically made too many mistake to recover the situation and redeem myself

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223310

However she recently hit me up after I went NC for nearly a week. Just a Radom obvious question of if I worked on a certain day.

At work she went from rushing away when I'm near to actually saying hi.
Since then she's also been liking my FB status when I chat with others.

Lastly today she kept lingering around the kitchen where I work. I had to ask her a question about something work related & she instantly went from looking down and grouchy to normal and kinda happy.

I went back to NC basically not saying anything to her when sh comes around.

Should I keep doing this or is it enough? Keep in mind she's mentioned being very shy& it shows.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Talk to other girls dude. Mistakes were made. Painfully so. And just be more social and talkative to OTHER people in general. Not girls specifically (although that can help too). Still don't talk to her. You are a man so you don't need her.
 

Zarky

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Fr0st said:
At work she went from rushing away when I'm near to actually saying hi.
Since then she's also been liking my FB status when I chat with others.

Lastly today she kept lingering around the kitchen where I work. I had to ask her a question about something work related
Jesus christ not another guy getting gaga about a chick at work. There should be a sticky saying, "Don't get physically or emotionally engaged with co-workers. Ever. For any reason."

yeesh
 

pyros

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she seems happier because you stopped contacting her, so she doesnt think any longer you're a creep. Anyway, this doesnt not mean anything 'romantic'.

Just talk to her like you would to anyone.
 
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