Hercules20
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Ok guys,
Recently I converted my oneitis into a "oneitis with benefits". It's been like this for a month roughly. Here's the original post: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=54761
Having experienced a month of fun with this girl, I have some things to update. First being that all the hype and build up that we have for our oneitis, isn't worth it. Secondly, we've remained on a friends with benefits level. There's nothing wrong with this at all, but now i've reached the point where I wonder how long this will all last for. It doesn't look like we are going to date anytime soon, only continue fooling around. The only problem is that she gets her panties in a knot whenever I mention other girls and she gets very jealous. She tells me that she isn't ready to date yet, but that she wants to maintain what we have for awhile. However when it comes to other girls, she wants me to remain committed to her. Smells like bullsh1t to anyone on the outside looking in.
This girl is the flirtatious type, and when she drinks she has a tendancy to flirt alot with other guys. Whenever im with her at the bar we are all over eachother, but when im not there I hear some stories about her flirting with other guys. I try my hardest to shrug it off, but I get a little jealous/pissed off over this.
So we both get pissed off about the idea of eachother flirting with others or seeing other people. I have another girl on the side that I want to fool around with, but I don't want to hurt the feelings of my friend with benefits. I also want someone to fall back on if my friend with benefits is fooling around with another guy behind my back.
Has anyone been in the same situation? How long did the benefits and friendship last for?
Recently I converted my oneitis into a "oneitis with benefits". It's been like this for a month roughly. Here's the original post: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=54761
Having experienced a month of fun with this girl, I have some things to update. First being that all the hype and build up that we have for our oneitis, isn't worth it. Secondly, we've remained on a friends with benefits level. There's nothing wrong with this at all, but now i've reached the point where I wonder how long this will all last for. It doesn't look like we are going to date anytime soon, only continue fooling around. The only problem is that she gets her panties in a knot whenever I mention other girls and she gets very jealous. She tells me that she isn't ready to date yet, but that she wants to maintain what we have for awhile. However when it comes to other girls, she wants me to remain committed to her. Smells like bullsh1t to anyone on the outside looking in.
This girl is the flirtatious type, and when she drinks she has a tendancy to flirt alot with other guys. Whenever im with her at the bar we are all over eachother, but when im not there I hear some stories about her flirting with other guys. I try my hardest to shrug it off, but I get a little jealous/pissed off over this.
So we both get pissed off about the idea of eachother flirting with others or seeing other people. I have another girl on the side that I want to fool around with, but I don't want to hurt the feelings of my friend with benefits. I also want someone to fall back on if my friend with benefits is fooling around with another guy behind my back.
Has anyone been in the same situation? How long did the benefits and friendship last for?
