"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Update on chick who was flirting w/ me 2 wks ago

broken dreams

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OK this was 2 weeks ago ,
My day went OK after school, I went to haircut place and there was this persian spanish chick eye contact me the whole time in the I was in the waiting area was then stood next to me talking with someone else.
she looked at me ,smiled and I just laughed and gave her a flirtacious devilish smile,
I went to get my cut and she came with her near me and stared at the mirror looking at me and the girl cutting my hair told her. to hey chill out, with those hanging out (she meant her tits ). She responded to the chick cutting my hair : I have it so that I can show them to this nice man over here, ( and I felt the sexual tension right after she said it ) then seconds later said: " .... I was just kidding." anyways ?!

she disappeared anyways I called the place next day and the person who answered the phone was angela big tities persian !! she rememebred me but wasn't feeling it I gave her my number (1st mistake) and told her she was cute. (?)

She never called me...

yesterday since Im going to Boston and Im getting all ready for the trip I went to the same place (its like $5 haricut , for nyc is cheap)
So I went and a girl there cool friendly girl cut my hair and it happens that the big tits persian is her best friend I noticed this cause I saw big tities trying to approach her to say somehing and backed off when she saw me. I pretended I didnt see her so , It was no big deal to me.

I went into comfort and dhv's stories about girl i went shopping with and what she like to do.

So when I went to pay and gave this chick a tip bigtities kept lokking at the floor and avoiding eye contact. I was cool with the chick cutting my hair did awesome job btw, but they left together as soon as I left.

I figured I did something wrong thats why I wrote "chase vs pursue" (read that post).

I acted at the end like I didnt see her or recognize her at all no interest just not to make things worse.

Like you guys to help me in this autopsy report and any feedback comment etc!
she was flashing tities one moment and she was in this mode now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when these kind of girls are around you have to let them do all the work of meeting you. don't chase them. if they want you let them prove it because most of the time its just BS. Remember that every male who goes in there probably asked for her number. Your mistake was thinking that she liked you when she just liked the male attention you provided. don't worry this happens all the time to guys. remember, let them do the work and if you land one just enjoy the moment, never make one your GF. Best is if you can just ignore them altogether. your life will be simpler.
 

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Yeah she was just BS'ing you. Never give your number out that gives her all the control. Most women like to be controlled, not the opposite.
 

broken dreams

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I'm getting flakes by giving my number out. so that mistake I'll correct now.
I should have called her out for hitting on me that day.

ok like to hear more what you guys think
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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