"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Update on chick who was flirting w/ me 2 wks ago

broken dreams

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OK this was 2 weeks ago ,
My day went OK after school, I went to haircut place and there was this persian spanish chick eye contact me the whole time in the I was in the waiting area was then stood next to me talking with someone else.
she looked at me ,smiled and I just laughed and gave her a flirtacious devilish smile,
I went to get my cut and she came with her near me and stared at the mirror looking at me and the girl cutting my hair told her. to hey chill out, with those hanging out (she meant her tits ). She responded to the chick cutting my hair : I have it so that I can show them to this nice man over here, ( and I felt the sexual tension right after she said it ) then seconds later said: " .... I was just kidding." anyways ?!

she disappeared anyways I called the place next day and the person who answered the phone was angela big tities persian !! she rememebred me but wasn't feeling it I gave her my number (1st mistake) and told her she was cute. (?)

She never called me...

yesterday since Im going to Boston and Im getting all ready for the trip I went to the same place (its like $5 haricut , for nyc is cheap)
So I went and a girl there cool friendly girl cut my hair and it happens that the big tits persian is her best friend I noticed this cause I saw big tities trying to approach her to say somehing and backed off when she saw me. I pretended I didnt see her so , It was no big deal to me.

I went into comfort and dhv's stories about girl i went shopping with and what she like to do.

So when I went to pay and gave this chick a tip bigtities kept lokking at the floor and avoiding eye contact. I was cool with the chick cutting my hair did awesome job btw, but they left together as soon as I left.

I figured I did something wrong thats why I wrote "chase vs pursue" (read that post).

I acted at the end like I didnt see her or recognize her at all no interest just not to make things worse.

Like you guys to help me in this autopsy report and any feedback comment etc!
she was flashing tities one moment and she was in this mode now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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when these kind of girls are around you have to let them do all the work of meeting you. don't chase them. if they want you let them prove it because most of the time its just BS. Remember that every male who goes in there probably asked for her number. Your mistake was thinking that she liked you when she just liked the male attention you provided. don't worry this happens all the time to guys. remember, let them do the work and if you land one just enjoy the moment, never make one your GF. Best is if you can just ignore them altogether. your life will be simpler.
 

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Yeah she was just BS'ing you. Never give your number out that gives her all the control. Most women like to be controlled, not the opposite.
 

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I'm getting flakes by giving my number out. so that mistake I'll correct now.
I should have called her out for hitting on me that day.

ok like to hear more what you guys think
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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