"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Upcoming threesome. Prelim. dinner. Who pays?

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Here's the situation: I'll be having a threesome (FFM), but before we do, we are all going out for dinner, to talk about it and get more comfortable with each other (and define some limits). Now, who should pick up the tab? Would it really matter if we all split the bill, or I paid?

We're all 17-18 yo; the participants are my gf, and another chick who I knew from way back, but have not been close friends with (we ran in different circles). The place we are going to isn't top class, but not fast food/boston pizza either, so I wouldn't feel bad for paying. But what kind of message should I send?

(I've never done this before, if you can't tell :)). Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Disconnect said:
Here's the situation: I'll be having a threesome (FFM), but before we do, we are all going out for dinner,to talk about it and get more comfortable with each other (and define some limits). Now, who should pick up the tab? Would it really matter if we all split the bill, or I paid?


(I've never done this before,if you can't tell :)). Thanks!
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Wont happen, at your age threesomes are sponanteous sexual events, not calculated and planned, i think either yor completley naiive or these girls are taking u for a mug so they can get dinner out of you.
 
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Translation

"Yay! I'm gonna have a threesome and I want the world to know but I don't want to boast!!!"

Boast away boy! (read: give us an FR!)

LOL

JJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obviously if it happened, he would have posted the outcome
 
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