Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Upcoming threesome. Prelim. dinner. Who pays?

Disconnect

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Here's the situation: I'll be having a threesome (FFM), but before we do, we are all going out for dinner, to talk about it and get more comfortable with each other (and define some limits). Now, who should pick up the tab? Would it really matter if we all split the bill, or I paid?

We're all 17-18 yo; the participants are my gf, and another chick who I knew from way back, but have not been close friends with (we ran in different circles). The place we are going to isn't top class, but not fast food/boston pizza either, so I wouldn't feel bad for paying. But what kind of message should I send?

(I've never done this before, if you can't tell :)). Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Disconnect said:
Here's the situation: I'll be having a threesome (FFM), but before we do, we are all going out for dinner,to talk about it and get more comfortable with each other (and define some limits). Now, who should pick up the tab? Would it really matter if we all split the bill, or I paid?


(I've never done this before,if you can't tell :)). Thanks!
Wont happen, at your age threesomes are sponanteous sexual events, not calculated and planned, i think either yor completley naiive or these girls are taking u for a mug so they can get dinner out of you.
 

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Translation

"Yay! I'm gonna have a threesome and I want the world to know but I don't want to boast!!!"

Boast away boy! (read: give us an FR!)

LOL

JJ
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obviously if it happened, he would have posted the outcome
 
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