"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Upcoming date plan: Kind of clueless.

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I'm in a dilly of a pickle, or at least that's what the 60s-70s Robin would say.

I've already taken her out to Santa Monica Pier, did some fun and "fun" stuff there :up:
I've taken her to play pool, did some more "fun" stuff :cool:

It's been a week and a half of not taking her out and this Saturday I'm not sure where to take her out to.
I was initially thinking of the movies, but then there are no good movies out lately; I'm kinda aiming for April 7th or 8th for a flick, since The Benchwarmers will come out and I figured a good comedy movie might make things more interesting.
Or perhaps the LACMA museum, where I'm sure only 5% of the guys in LA actually take a girlfriend to; I can find out her views on certain stuff, maybe fool around in unguarded areas of the museums, etc etc.
Or maybe even a decent theme park like Universal Studios Hollywood; I have a season pass, so I can just help her pay for the tix.
Now, I'm sort of fresh out of ideas (pathetic, yes), so I've come here to ask for some advice:

What are some creative or casual things that I can do with my girl this weekend (I live in L.A. without a car; that's like fighting in a war without a gun) outside of the 3 things I brainstormed at the moment?

brainstorm on DJ's! please help!:cuss:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Universal Studios!!!

I'm in a similar situation... I'm taking out this girl and I don't know where. She said dinner & movies... I say dinner and get wasted and watch TV =)
 
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take her to Universal Studios!!! girls really love theme parks, amusement parks!
 
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Which date is this? The third??

I'd save the amusement park for a special occasion, to be honest. You don't want to raise her expectations on dates too far too early. On the other hand, it's not like you'd be going to disneyland...universal studios is pretty cheap so I guess that's cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she totally pays for her ticket...if she questions tell her you dont pay for sex.

but universal sounds good. man i hate not driving
 
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