"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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**** Up Report!!!!!

ProDJ26

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HB has been annoying since I was with my ex. She stopped ever since me and my ex broke up so I gave in and decided to try. lol Hear it is:
We get on Aim:

Me: Loser

HB: What do you want

Me: Dman its lyke that? lol

HB: Who's this?

Me: Playing stupid are we?

HB: oh, then yea it's like that

Me: LMAO, yo punk azz iz krazy

HB: :) How's Your Girlfriend?

That **** threw me off, she knows my ex and she knows were not together anymore. I didn't know how to counter that and was actually shocked at the fact she knew.

HB: ok then

So I was still amazed on how she knew but I replied 10mins later

Me: She's OK, If u wanna call her that lol so....

HB: you call her that, soo

Me: Do I? lol We should hang out

HB: doubtful

Me: U no like fun? haha ur a loser :)

HB: so r u

This is where I ****ed up cuz I was texting another HB at the same time and got the messages mixed up!! ****in Classic!!!! :crackup:

Me: No Im Not Gay

It was then I realize I just ****ed up lol

HB: newayz

Me: lunch?

HB: wen?

I was so ****n eager to plan it for Tuesday but today is Sunday so I didnt wanna seem to desperate, Thursday was to late so I picked Wensday.

Me: Let me check my schedule...

HB: txt me if u wanna chat I'm syncing my ipod and going to the living room, I'll be afc.

I'm thinking "how the **** does she know what AFC is?" but it wasnt that. Like a ****in idiot I go and text her 15mins later....BAD MISTAKE I shouldn't texted her and let her wonder a bit. I went to text her but she text me first


HB: don't like ur intention sorry not interested

So I told myself, "self you just got rejected" So I said **** it thats that, NEXT!!! She then replys

HB: wow gave up quick...I feel special

I should of ignore it but I bit the bait and replied

Me: lol yea special ed, I don't know what ur talkin about I didn't get ur last text

HB: then get a new fone

Me: lol don't hate cuz u got that busted azz fone lol be ready wensday at 1:00pm :)

HB: Ur cute (THAT A ****N BIG AZZ INSULT) and all but I'm lookin for more than that and I don't feel ur feelin that right now

(***** WTF? lol hoes are krazy!!!) :crackup: :crackup:
So I didnt reply and decided to let it go...she replies

HB: ok?

HB: I'll pray for u....to find what you want.

I replied 15mins later


Me: You have NO IDEA lol :)

HB: why r u playing games? I'm not trying to put u down I'm just telling u how I feel...

Me: relax...Irespect your feelings, maybe I should u space :)

HB: Ur crazy but its reaally u...thats just whack just be happy wit what u got. Damn

Me: lol ok ok maybe ur not as fun as I thought take care :)

HB: Ya just lose the number, like I said the intentions r not good so further communication is not needed. take care

And that was that!!! ****in rejection!!!!
Ever since me and my ex broken up about three weeks ago I've been back in the game but the game is not showin pro no love. EVERY woman that I've tried to make dates with has said the same thing, "the intentions aren't good"

lol WTF? Well I do know that every chick I've gamed on the past couple of weeks knows my ex somehow. I'm definately considering dropping of the face of the earth for awhile and let myself not be known. Absence does increase honor. I'll have another report soon.


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AlexTheGreat

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She sounds halfway interested in hearing from you, but doesn't sound interested IN you. Also, are you sure she knew your gf and you had broken up?

From this quote:"HB: Ur crazy but its reaally u...thats just whack just be happy wit what u got. Damn"
Sounds like she didn't know, and she thought you wanted to cheat on your gf with her. Also, since they all know your ex, maybe they think you're trying to get with them to get back at your ex. Take it slower soldier, too much enthousiasm will get you shot.
 

Telos

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Me: She's OK, If u wanna call her that lol so....
HB: you call her that, soo
Me: Do I? lol We should hang out
HB: doubtful

Burned.

Chill out man and don't make your intentions so obvious.
 

dav27

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It's kinda obvious you went wrong from asking to hang out way too soon in the convo (pretty much right away). You probably would have done a bit better if you let in drag for a while, build some comfort.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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