"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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**** up my chances with a HB.

jxc

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I don't really care too much. Last night it did some real damage to my ego, but I woke up this morning not really caring too much. Sure it sucks, but atleast I learned from my mistake.

Everything was going perfect. I asked for her number, she told me she just moved and would let know as soon as she found out her number. I should of ended the convo right there, I had already made her laugh and we were deffinately at the "peak" of course conversation. Instead, I stuck around and tried talking more. But I wanted to seem like I was the one in control, she wasn't saying much. So I would start responding with one etc.. like "Interesting." I think that is the one word that pretty much killed it. I was waiting for her to start a discussion, but she was a tough cookie I guess. And after receiving a "Yeah... I guess.." I still didn't learn my lesson. I stuck around even longer and tried to "fix" my mistake. Ahhhhh. ****.

My advice, when you are at the peak of the convo.. get the **** out of there immediately. You have less of a chance of saying something that turns her off/bores her.. whatever.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think she just wasn't interested.

"she told me she just moved and would let know as soon as she found out her number"
translation: no, you cannot have my number

how many girls do you know without a cellphone? i don't think they exist any longer
 

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mountain said:
I think she just wasn't interested.

"she told me she just moved and would let know as soon as she found out her number"
translation: no, you cannot have my number

how many girls do you know without a cellphone? i don't think they exist any longer
Yes I agree. Good work on approaching her at least. You didn't nothing wrong.
 
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