"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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**** up my chances with a HB.

jxc

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I don't really care too much. Last night it did some real damage to my ego, but I woke up this morning not really caring too much. Sure it sucks, but atleast I learned from my mistake.

Everything was going perfect. I asked for her number, she told me she just moved and would let know as soon as she found out her number. I should of ended the convo right there, I had already made her laugh and we were deffinately at the "peak" of course conversation. Instead, I stuck around and tried talking more. But I wanted to seem like I was the one in control, she wasn't saying much. So I would start responding with one etc.. like "Interesting." I think that is the one word that pretty much killed it. I was waiting for her to start a discussion, but she was a tough cookie I guess. And after receiving a "Yeah... I guess.." I still didn't learn my lesson. I stuck around even longer and tried to "fix" my mistake. Ahhhhh. ****.

My advice, when you are at the peak of the convo.. get the **** out of there immediately. You have less of a chance of saying something that turns her off/bores her.. whatever.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think she just wasn't interested.

"she told me she just moved and would let know as soon as she found out her number"
translation: no, you cannot have my number

how many girls do you know without a cellphone? i don't think they exist any longer
 

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mountain said:
I think she just wasn't interested.

"she told me she just moved and would let know as soon as she found out her number"
translation: no, you cannot have my number

how many girls do you know without a cellphone? i don't think they exist any longer
Yes I agree. Good work on approaching her at least. You didn't nothing wrong.
 
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