"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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foamy

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ok, so as you may have read, I was really into this one girl, well now I really relized how AFC I was and reread the bible.
I broke contact with her, and am moving on to one of the other three girls I was pursuing.

Well, her best friend (I am around 95% sure) likes me, she is ... her ugly friend... like a 4-5 on the 10 scale.

I find the whole situation really creepy. She friended me on Myspace just because I was her friends friend. She msged me a while bunch asking me how I am and crap. Then she got my IM and msged me a whole bunch after, telling me how happy she is that I am her friends friend. I HAVE NEVER EVEN MET HER IN PERSON OR TALKED TO HER ON THE PHONE.
f-ing creepy if you ask me.

So, ya. Not hitting on that sh*t. I'd like a good way to tell her I'm not interested without being a jackace... I don't want her to like me more because I treat her badly. If I ignore her, wont she just be that more determent to "win me over"?

And also my reputation may be at stake, I know she is friends with a girl here that I really was interested in, and I am very well know here. I don't really want a cr*ppy rep. So no "F you, get the F away from me and never talk to me again". I dont think that would be good.

Thanks,

Foamy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NFC

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I hate that. I'm in the same situation. ****ing UGs and their damn ****blocking... just try and tell her in the most polite way possible. Or just keep ignoring her, maybe she will get the hint and get tired of chasing.
 

Juan_Man

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Introduce her to a friend of yours who is better looking than you. I'm in a similar situation but unfortunately I haven't found the right guy for the part.
 

foamy

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thanks,

the situation got much worse yesterday, now she believes (By the sound of it) that we're soul mates... WTF.

and its really complicated because her friend, the one that I liked, went to her for advice, so I have no idea what the carp is going to happen.
eh, whatever

I think I just need to disappear from her for a week or so.


Anyone seen the movie "Swim Fan"?... I hope that siht doesn't go down.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten

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the next time her friend messages you, ask her a million questions about the chick you like.
who is she dating?
does she like to xxx(whatever you can think of )
until the friend takes the hint.
 
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