"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unwanted Attention ruining everything!...UPDATE!

ryanvalmont

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Ok so i went down town as usaul and tryed to ignore the disabled girl i made a thread about like a week ago.

She never took the hint to leave me alone untill i told her friend after getting pissed...sorry i couldn't help getting pissed at her

"tell your friend to leave me the **** alone will ya!"

Now after this i leave the club and wait in the taxi que,untill this girl comes out crying and screaming and everything.
So i decide to give her my number to defuse the situation.

From there i would get ALOT of texts from her even after bluntly telling her i don't like her.
She then tell's me i was doing all the running and comming onto her.

AS IF i would come onto a disabled girl who is very unatractive.

From this message i bluntly told her i've never liked you and only spoke to you because i felt sorry for you.

Since then i haven't had a txt back.

LESSON: Don't talk to girls you don't fancy...PERIOD!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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From this message i bluntly told her i've never liked you and only spoke to you because i felt sorry for you.
Man, that's fvcking nasty. But it worked.

Sounds like you were pushed to the limit and had to do something cruel to eliminate any further problems. While I normally don't applaud insults to other people, it sounds like you had no other choice.
 

ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Man, that's fvcking nasty. But it worked.

Sounds like you were pushed to the limit and had to do something cruel to eliminate any further problems. While I normally don't applaud insults to other people, it sounds like you had no other choice.

I swear to you now you are 100% spot on!!,it went on for weeks and weeks and i was getting the mick taken outta me from my friends and familly who were giveing me a hard time over it.

People were laughing at me and saying i can't pull normal girls the lot....normally i would never ever be this nasty to a girl.

but i felt the only way outta this would be cruel,and even then i had to do it over txt.

just hope i don't see her tonight or tommorow night down town ;(
 

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Ok so now it's like a week after i tell her to get lost and leave me alone and all.

Today i get a txt saying her friend wants to know if my bro is going downtown with me saturday.

I know this is a ploy just to speak to me after i told her where to go....i'm really getting concerned how she WILL NOT leave me alone and is now making exscuses just to talk to me.

updated as of 23.3.05
 

frivolousz21

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have her number blocked.

she obviously is deperate...and by the way what disability does she have?

those were harsh words?? maybe u should of blocked her before u said that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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retards need lovin too:)
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Come on Ryan, give the girl what she wants!!

Under normal circumstances i wouldn't hesitate atall,but the girl is like a midget with her head slightly to the left.

Without sounding really nasty...she looks and walks around like E.T

imagine E.T trying to come onto you when your out trying to work your game and look cool,only for this thing to come up to ya and make ya look stupid.
 

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Originally posted by ryanvalmont

Without sounding really nasty...she looks and walks around like E.T

imagine E.T trying to come onto you when your out trying to work your game and look cool,only for this thing to come up to ya and make ya look stupid.
lmao dude....I know it's bad to laugh but that was funny as hell.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
lmao

I nominate this thread for
HALL OF SHAME

I second that,but i bet i'm not the only one who has been stalked by somebody you don't want following you around.

It's frustrating when you try to tell them to get lost nicely,only for them to ignore it and continue to bug you.
 
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