"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unwanted Attention ruining everything!...UPDATE!

ryanvalmont

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Ok so i went down town as usaul and tryed to ignore the disabled girl i made a thread about like a week ago.

She never took the hint to leave me alone untill i told her friend after getting pissed...sorry i couldn't help getting pissed at her

"tell your friend to leave me the **** alone will ya!"

Now after this i leave the club and wait in the taxi que,untill this girl comes out crying and screaming and everything.
So i decide to give her my number to defuse the situation.

From there i would get ALOT of texts from her even after bluntly telling her i don't like her.
She then tell's me i was doing all the running and comming onto her.

AS IF i would come onto a disabled girl who is very unatractive.

From this message i bluntly told her i've never liked you and only spoke to you because i felt sorry for you.

Since then i haven't had a txt back.

LESSON: Don't talk to girls you don't fancy...PERIOD!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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From this message i bluntly told her i've never liked you and only spoke to you because i felt sorry for you.
Man, that's fvcking nasty. But it worked.

Sounds like you were pushed to the limit and had to do something cruel to eliminate any further problems. While I normally don't applaud insults to other people, it sounds like you had no other choice.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Man, that's fvcking nasty. But it worked.

Sounds like you were pushed to the limit and had to do something cruel to eliminate any further problems. While I normally don't applaud insults to other people, it sounds like you had no other choice.

I swear to you now you are 100% spot on!!,it went on for weeks and weeks and i was getting the mick taken outta me from my friends and familly who were giveing me a hard time over it.

People were laughing at me and saying i can't pull normal girls the lot....normally i would never ever be this nasty to a girl.

but i felt the only way outta this would be cruel,and even then i had to do it over txt.

just hope i don't see her tonight or tommorow night down town ;(
 

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Ok so now it's like a week after i tell her to get lost and leave me alone and all.

Today i get a txt saying her friend wants to know if my bro is going downtown with me saturday.

I know this is a ploy just to speak to me after i told her where to go....i'm really getting concerned how she WILL NOT leave me alone and is now making exscuses just to talk to me.

updated as of 23.3.05
 

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have her number blocked.

she obviously is deperate...and by the way what disability does she have?

those were harsh words?? maybe u should of blocked her before u said that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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retards need lovin too:)
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Come on Ryan, give the girl what she wants!!

Under normal circumstances i wouldn't hesitate atall,but the girl is like a midget with her head slightly to the left.

Without sounding really nasty...she looks and walks around like E.T

imagine E.T trying to come onto you when your out trying to work your game and look cool,only for this thing to come up to ya and make ya look stupid.
 

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Originally posted by ryanvalmont

Without sounding really nasty...she looks and walks around like E.T

imagine E.T trying to come onto you when your out trying to work your game and look cool,only for this thing to come up to ya and make ya look stupid.
lmao dude....I know it's bad to laugh but that was funny as hell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
lmao

I nominate this thread for
HALL OF SHAME

I second that,but i bet i'm not the only one who has been stalked by somebody you don't want following you around.

It's frustrating when you try to tell them to get lost nicely,only for them to ignore it and continue to bug you.
 
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