"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Untamed bushes.

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F***ing scary. I can understand women who'd rather trim, but I never realized how much hair actually grows down there. It was like animal hair or something, felt prehistoric, no evolutionary reason for it in modern times.

A guy I know said "that's what a mature woman looks like", and asked me do I like little girls. Lmao. I went off... called him a beastialist.

What do you guys think? Hairy muff attractive? Because I'm leaning towards "unacceptable". It's also possible I just came across a really hairy woman.

If I could redo it, I'd offer an ultimatum, "shave it now or I'll report you to animal control". But I didn't want to be awkward, besides she's kind of "high status". Looked like she'd never seen a pair of clippers before, though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i don't even like the **** above the rough. i don't like any hair at all. because if you are eating a girl out and that **** is all on your chin and **** and it iches lol.

my wife and i have an understanding. she doesn't like hair either and so we are both 100% clean shaven down there. it works pretty well.
 

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Every girl I've ever dated has been clean shaven. I couldn't deal with a chick with a forest down there. That is gross as hell.
 

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I admittedly have a bush fetish. Yep, I said it. Now I'm not talking a crazy unruly gorilla bush, but I like some fur down there, "hedged", as it were.

Personally for me, my girl is allowed to either wax completely, or grow out her bush. No shaving. Whiskers, razor rash...no bueno.
 

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As colossus said bush is good... in moderation haha. just like a mans beard it should be well kept not unruly. the bermuda triangle or the landing strip are always classics lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Colossus said:
I admittedly have a bush fetish. Yep, I said it. Now I'm not talking a crazy unruly gorilla bush, but I like some fur down there, "hedged", as it were.
I'm the same way I prefer some bush to completely shaved. Most girls I've been with are shaved.
 

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Two months ago I dumped a chick for having a horrible bush down there. Last month I had a "threesome" (which only involved oral) but it was marred because the two women also had huge bushes. Totally ridiculous.

I don't expect absolute smoothness but it should be trimmed pretty damn short.
 

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The way I see it is if I can shave my balls with a fuxxen straight razor (only one I own and use) I expect some landscaping on her behalf!!!
 

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When I was 21, I remember looking at a girl's crotch after she had just gotten naked and having the epiphany of OH! So that's why they call it a beav3r.

If a girl only has a tiny little patch that she has never shaved, it is nice and soft. But once she shaves once, I think she has to forever.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I prefer it somewhat hairy but well trimmed (not necessarily length, but nice, neat edges).
 

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Next time you have a chick you really like and she has a bush....have some fun ....bring out your electric shaver and start bushwacking her. Be playful about it.....
abe
 

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I'm 45...so I've experienced both...in University and high school no one shaved or even trimmed....wooly mammoths down there.....today, I don't think I've experienced a woman with a single hair in 5 years...I tell them I prefer hair free and roses down there...they oblige...so much better than the extinct mammoth.
 

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I've never once had one that was clean-shaven, but I have no interest in that. I must have finely-tuned internal "Furdar".

A little fur makes it much more exciting for me. I've never run across a huge, untrimmed bush either. All of them have been nicely trimmed.
 

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Never really bought into the social conditioning of bald badgers. A woman should have fur, she's not a child. Our modern women behave childlike at the best of times as it is, no need to infantilize their ****s as well. By the same token I'm not a fan of piss trapped wild bush. The chick I'm seeing now has waxed so often for so many years she can no longer grow hair down there. It's kind of annoying and pisses me off a bit but you push through these 1st world conundrums.

Having said that I rarely if ever go down anyway and I'm still going to cvm regardless of bush or bald. A non issue.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The only time I have ever seen full bush was probably a 70's porno. Majority I'd say where clean shaven, ex wife always shaved full boar. The rest a landing strip or some what managed triangle.
 

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worst one ever I had one that was clean shaven but her ar$e hole was a tad hairy... it made me a bit sick in the guts haha... so wanted to pluck one when doing her doggy though
 

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This is why a man should always carry tweezers.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I prefer it somewhat hairy but well trimmed (not necessarily length, but nice, neat edges).
EXACTLY.

I hooked up with one girl in my life who had a HUGE bush. Like completely untrimmed, unhedged, 2-3" thick bush. When we were going at it there were pubes everywhere. It was disgusting.

The wax or laser hair removal jobs feel sooooo good, but I do find myself longing for some fur at times. Like the soft tuft that welcomes you in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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