I know, typical topic, but it is still kinda confusing and in no doubt you'll understand the same.
At work, I got this co-worker who started recently, and since then she started speaking with me, asked me typical questions, what I'm doing in life (teenage work place) blah blah..
anyway, shifts later, I noticed few things; I started wearing glasses, and she complimanted me, she twice asked me when I work next week, and when she found out we won't work on the same day she made an "oof" sign. after she done it twice, for interest I said "Ah,, sux I won't see you next week (first time I didn't do so..)" and she asked if I'm gonna miss her, said yes.
once she finished her shift, I gave her a hug and said "well, do something so we can work together" noticed also that she should've went already to sign off, but still kept staying around just until i reminded me that she really should sign off her shift (Might make troubles afterall).
The problem arised here: co-worker of mine told me he's into her, and few days later I saw them together, him talking to her, I decided to not be a ****blocker and took a piss or something, later after he left, she approached me and started talking about random ****.. and slowly was like "ehh.. idk how to do that.. " blah blah, and I kinda teased her to tell. and guess what she said "well, I think this guy is into me (co worker) and I dont know how to tell him that I'm not interested" and I asked for interest why she said "well, I dont know, i'm not sure.." tried to avoid the reason, (guy's a little fat, obviously) and I teased her "well, isn't whats inside whats important?" and she said "well.. but I'm not sure I want a bf right now, I had a bf a year ago, and we broke up and I want to feel free right now"
said well, ok and convo continued to random **** about wow how cool is it that guys pick you up, and I wish I was picked up by girls and she said "ah, yeah thats somtimes nice blah blah"
during the convo, I noticed few things, he eyes, and her lips.. might be non-sense but it was cute, she looked at me once and then on the ground, and was kinda shy looking, and plus once she looked me I noticed she bitten her lips (which we all heard mean something [or it was just dry out there..?])
so, basically i'm really confused if she's into me, or just extremely friendly to share a guy she doesn't really know for long about her relationships..
Few points, I'm not a "gay" acting guy who's friendzone with everyone. I can tell a girl to go **** her self (not by actually saying that). problem is I've never called a girl into a date, and I feel confident with girls up until its actually about romantics..
(all the convo I had with her was before the scene when I hugged her and she said she would like to work with me more)
Problem with those "if she smiles or laughs" is that 90% of the girls around me smile and laugh at my stupid jokes like i'm a ****ing comedian..(and i'm not). but DJ I am surely not.. so that is why I'm always in a confused loop (Thats the about myself in overall and not specific story).
So yeah.. advice would be nice.. if you got overall advice, not just about this girl, would be awesome aswell
At work, I got this co-worker who started recently, and since then she started speaking with me, asked me typical questions, what I'm doing in life (teenage work place) blah blah..
anyway, shifts later, I noticed few things; I started wearing glasses, and she complimanted me, she twice asked me when I work next week, and when she found out we won't work on the same day she made an "oof" sign. after she done it twice, for interest I said "Ah,, sux I won't see you next week (first time I didn't do so..)" and she asked if I'm gonna miss her, said yes.
once she finished her shift, I gave her a hug and said "well, do something so we can work together" noticed also that she should've went already to sign off, but still kept staying around just until i reminded me that she really should sign off her shift (Might make troubles afterall).
The problem arised here: co-worker of mine told me he's into her, and few days later I saw them together, him talking to her, I decided to not be a ****blocker and took a piss or something, later after he left, she approached me and started talking about random ****.. and slowly was like "ehh.. idk how to do that.. " blah blah, and I kinda teased her to tell. and guess what she said "well, I think this guy is into me (co worker) and I dont know how to tell him that I'm not interested" and I asked for interest why she said "well, I dont know, i'm not sure.." tried to avoid the reason, (guy's a little fat, obviously) and I teased her "well, isn't whats inside whats important?" and she said "well.. but I'm not sure I want a bf right now, I had a bf a year ago, and we broke up and I want to feel free right now"
said well, ok and convo continued to random **** about wow how cool is it that guys pick you up, and I wish I was picked up by girls and she said "ah, yeah thats somtimes nice blah blah"
during the convo, I noticed few things, he eyes, and her lips.. might be non-sense but it was cute, she looked at me once and then on the ground, and was kinda shy looking, and plus once she looked me I noticed she bitten her lips (which we all heard mean something [or it was just dry out there..?])
so, basically i'm really confused if she's into me, or just extremely friendly to share a guy she doesn't really know for long about her relationships..
Few points, I'm not a "gay" acting guy who's friendzone with everyone. I can tell a girl to go **** her self (not by actually saying that). problem is I've never called a girl into a date, and I feel confident with girls up until its actually about romantics..
(all the convo I had with her was before the scene when I hugged her and she said she would like to work with me more)
Problem with those "if she smiles or laughs" is that 90% of the girls around me smile and laugh at my stupid jokes like i'm a ****ing comedian..(and i'm not). but DJ I am surely not.. so that is why I'm always in a confused loop (Thats the about myself in overall and not specific story).
So yeah.. advice would be nice.. if you got overall advice, not just about this girl, would be awesome aswell
