Blackhole105
Don Juan
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I met a girl on OkC a few months ago, and we've been chatting online ever since. We finally met in person about a week ago--we got coffee and spent some time walking around. It was fun, and based on what we said to each other when it was over, it definitely seemed to me that we would meet again.
Anyway, since then I've become somewhat ill, and haven't really been able to leave my house. And it seems like I won't be able to exert myself very hard for at least a few more weeks, meaning I probably won't be able to go on any dates.
Simple enough right? But here's the part of it that confuses me. The girl, who is admittedly shy and lacks dating experience, has not contacted me since our first date. For the first few days after the date all my intuition was telling me that she wanted and was expecting me to ask her out again. But now I'm not so sure. Could I have been wrong in assuming that she liked me?
So I'm wondering, should I tell her that I'm sick, and that's why I haven't asked her out again? Should I wait for her to contact me? Should I just let things sit in silence until I'm healed?
Anyway, since then I've become somewhat ill, and haven't really been able to leave my house. And it seems like I won't be able to exert myself very hard for at least a few more weeks, meaning I probably won't be able to go on any dates.
Simple enough right? But here's the part of it that confuses me. The girl, who is admittedly shy and lacks dating experience, has not contacted me since our first date. For the first few days after the date all my intuition was telling me that she wanted and was expecting me to ask her out again. But now I'm not so sure. Could I have been wrong in assuming that she liked me?
So I'm wondering, should I tell her that I'm sick, and that's why I haven't asked her out again? Should I wait for her to contact me? Should I just let things sit in silence until I'm healed?