Unpopular Opinon: Gen-Z Men Have Low Standards, One Of the Main Culprits For Their Dating Woes!

[Solomon]

https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1994325451200688265

^^This video currently

I’m not here to shame anyone. If you’re a chubby chaser, do your thing. I personally love thick (not fat) girls. But I’m going to say a few harsh truths.

20 years ago, these types of women were stereotyped as the ones who took care of hobosexuals, guys fresh out of jail, or men with no stability. I’m not saying heavier women don’t deserve good men, but back then, you would rarely see a jacked guy with a genuinely overweight woman. At most, if a fit guy was out drinking and down bad, he might hook up with one for a one-night stand, or stay with her because she was letting him live rent-free and covering his bills. Usually, if you ever saw these types in public, they would let the girl walk in front of the, and you could see the shame in their eyes (been there, done that)

Fast-forward to today: these couples are becoming common, especially in the Midwest where I live. Now you go on social media and see overweight women with what people call “delusional” standards wanting in-shape men. But are they really delusional if they’re actually dating these guys and the guys are claiming them? I know I'm going to get some hate for this, but this is a trend I'm starting to see and it's worrying, young men in great shape with sloppy women.

Solution:
Gen-Z, if you’re in shape and you want in-shape girls, raise your standards. There’s a weird duality going on: the in-shape Gen-Z crowd(women) looks like they could model, while a lot of Gen-Z women in their early 20s already look worn out like they’re in their 40s. I even know 50-year-old women in better shape.

But I digress If you like them chubby or chunky, do you King!

 

[Plinco]

The same can be said about standards of behavior and what 'men' are willing to tolerate.

 

[MatureDJ]

Once you get inside, it all feels the same.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: the toughest SMV range for men is the “Chad lite” zone of 7–8.5, which seems to be where these guys land. Women with similar SMVs are highly sought after in the dating market, so men in this range need to bring more to the table if they want to be taken seriously beyond purely physical relationships. On top of that, they’re often gaslit about their SMV, since they’re not unattractive but can easily be overshadowed by a Chad or Tyrone in the same room. Also, the guys with lower smv will outbid them with their time, money, game, and emotion for women they see as equal to them. Over time, this chips away at their confidence and hurts their game, leading them to lower their standards to find genuine interest.

 

[Manure Spherian]

https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1994325451200688265

^^This video currently

I’m not here to shame anyone. If you’re a chubby chaser, do your thing. I personally love thick (not fat) girls. But I’m going to say a few harsh truths.

20 years ago, these types of women were stereotyped as the ones who took care of hobosexuals, guys fresh out of jail, or men with no stability. I’m not saying heavier women don’t deserve good men, but back then, you would rarely see a jacked guy with a genuinely overweight woman. At most, if a fit guy was out drinking and down bad, he might hook up with one for a one-night stand, or stay with her because she was letting him live rent-free and covering his bills. Usually, if you ever saw these types in public, they would let the girl walk in front of the, and you could see the shame in their eyes (been there, done that)

Fast-forward to today: these couples are becoming common, especially in the Midwest where I live. Now you go on social media and see overweight women with what people call “delusional” standards wanting in-shape men. But are they really delusional if they’re actually dating these guys and the guys are claiming them? I know I'm going to get some hate for this, but this is a trend I'm starting to see and it's worrying, young men in great shape with sloppy women.

Solution:
Gen-Z, if you’re in shape and you want in-shape girls, raise your standards. There’s a weird duality going on: the in-shape Gen-Z crowd(women) looks like they could model, while a lot of Gen-Z women in their early 20s already look worn out like they’re in their 40s. I even know 50-year-old women in better shape.

But I digress If you like them chubby or chunky, do you King!

All those women can lose 20 to 30 lbs in one season. And none are ugly.

 

[zekko]

It'll keep you in shape lifting those women.

 

[Bokanovsky]

All those women can lose 20 to 30 lbs in one season. And none are ugly.

And all are quite young. If she’s 20 lbs at overweight at 20 years

 

[Bokanovsky]

It'll keep you in shape lifting those women.

Or give you a bad back. I wonder if this kind of injury would be covered by disability insurance. Imagine what the conversation with the adjuster would be like. “ Yes sir, I know it sounds kind of crazy but I broke my back trying to lift my fat GF…”

 

[BaronOfHair]

And they didn't learn those low-standards from nowhere. MOST of our fathers and forefathers knocked up garbage they didn't screen especially throughly, then remained with her out of fear and desperation. The men who were really crushing it in life were, and probably always will be, fewer in number than dudes who are just going through life as f-c-ing drones

Like most of life's most serious problems, this one ain't curable, so much as it is reducable to varying degrees

 

[zekko]

Classic beauty is a slim woman. But some heavier girls are appealing. My favorite pair of breasts ever was on a thick girl. I still think of them after nearly 40 years. That's memorable.

 

[plumber]

there is still lots of good looking women, really. the big question is where and how to be there.

and yes lots of delusional women that want higher smv. also lots of men in the same situation.

women are attracted to dominance; period. how to be dominant in different environments is well... different. if you become dominant in any environment the women in that space will for sure find you and then you can select for what you like. if you are not dominant in any place then you must hunt slow moving targets.

 

[MatureDJ]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: the toughest SMV range for men is the “Chad lite” zone of 7–8.5, which seems to be where these guys land. Women with similar SMVs are highly sought after in the dating market, so men in this range need to bring more to the table if they want to be taken seriously beyond purely physical relationships. On top of that, they’re often gaslit about their SMV, since they’re not unattractive but can easily be overshadowed by a Chad or Tyrone in the same room. Also, the guys with lower smv will outbid them with their time, money, game, and emotion for women they see as equal to them. Over time, this chips away at their confidence and hurts their game, leading them to lower their standards to find genuine interest.

It's OVER for 70s%-ileCels.

 

[Solomon]

All those women can lose 20 to 30 lbs in one season. And none are ugly.

I don't disagree, you hope that the guy is a good influence on her, and a woman is willing to change her weight.
I remember I use to work out Bally fitness a popular gym company in the Midwest (they have been closed now for a while due to bankruptcy)I remember meeting this ripped black guy and his gorgeous girlfriend. He showed me pictures of her when she was chunky, and he told me this

"We were friends through work, started hanging out, she wanted a relationship, and I told her hey you see how I eat and live if you want to be with me you're going to have to be in the gym"

She actually did it and turned gorgeous(she was chunky girl with a cute face, but lost the weight and turned into something like this. Her transformation was super impressive. The crazy part is she was always by his side you can tell she really admired him and looked at him as her King.

Then I've seen the other side, a guy who use to be a semi-bodybuilder, with a chick she never lost weight, went to the gym, she got bigger, but at least he got his rent paid and free meals.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I don't disagree, you hope that the guy is a good influence on her, and a woman is willing to change her weight.
I remember I use to work out Bally fitness a popular gym company in the Midwest (they have been closed now for a while due to bankruptcy)I remember meeting this ripped black guy and his gorgeous girlfriend. He showed me pictures of her when she was chunky, and he told me this

"We were friends through work, started hanging out, she wanted a relationship, and I told her hey you see how I eat and live if you want to be with me you're going to have to be in the gym"

She actually did it and turned gorgeous(she was chunky girl with a cute face, but lost the weight and turned into something like this. Her transformation was super impressive. The crazy part is she was always by his side you can tell she really admired him and looked at him as her King.

Then I've seen the other side, a guy who use to be a semi-bodybuilder, with a chick she never lost weight, went to the gym, she got bigger, but at least he got his rent paid and free meals.

My first gym was a Bally’s. My wife lost 30 pounds after meeting me.

 

[Bokanovsky]

My first gym was a Bally’s. My wife lost 30 pounds after meeting me.

Many years ago, I dated a girl who was in her early 20's. When we first met, her BMI was what I would consider borderline acceptable. Over the next few months, she kept gaining weight. I hinted a few times that it wouldn't be a bad idea for her to start working out. Her response was "I know I need to lose weight". But that's as far as it went, so eventually I had to dump her.

The funny thing is that if she took care of her body, she could have been a bonafide 9. Her face was gorgeous. She looked like a young Angelina Jolie. But she was too lazy to go to the gym, ate junk food and drank too much. Out of curiosity, I looked her up of Facebook a number of years later and nope, she didn't lose weight.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Many years ago, I dated a girl who was in her early 20's. When we first met, her BMI was what I would consider borderline acceptable. Over the next few months, she kept gaining weight. I hinted a few times that it wouldn't be a bad idea for her to start working out. Her response was "I know I need to lose weight". But that's as far as it went, so eventually I had to dump her.

The funny thing is that if she took care of her body, she could have been a bonafide 9. Her face was gorgeous. She looked like a young Angelina Jolie. But she was too lazy to go to the gym, ate junk food and drank too much. Out of curiosity, I looked her up of Facebook a number of years later and nope, she didn't lose weight.

It’s not in all people to do it. I know from professional experience.

Some men do not care if their women are chubby or fat, as shown in the video.

Most Chads I know married Plain Janes. I don’t considering any of this “lowering standards”.

 

[Barrister]

I think thicker girls can be attractive so long as they are muscular (although not too much). Granted, I’ve always liked a more athletic, but slim build. As I get older, I find that I will put up with an overall lower quality of beauty if she is more youthful.

I currently have a plate who is probably a HB 6.5 — but she is 12 years younger than me. I probably would not consider her hot enough if we were the same age, but given her youth I put up with some slightly lower standards for weight or facial beauty (within reason of course).

 

[Bokanovsky]

Some men do not care if their women are chubby or fat, as shown in the video.

Most Chads I know married Plain Janes. I don’t considering any of this “lowering standards”.

I don't believe this for a second. Every single one of those so-called "Chads" would trade their Plain Jane for a gorgeous bombshell if given the chance.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I don't believe this for a second. Every single one of those so-called "Chads" would trade their Plain Jane for a gorgeous bombshell if given the chance.

1). These men prioritize other things and have had their fair share of fun. They are probably getting genuine interest and not having to beg for sex with them while hotter women will treat them as inferiors at some point.

2). There are underlying conditions that you don't see upfront. My uncle is a jacked former frat star corporate sales Chad, but his wife is a fat woman from Nebraska. His wife also comes from a rich family, and they live in a 2-million-dollar house.

3). They actually like thicker women lol. Men can have preferences too.

4). She got fat or he lost weight during the duration of the relationship/marriage. Ending an LTR/marriage overweight isn't a strong point to end it abruptly. However, it could lead to cheating or other stuff later down the road that will end the relationship, but that is later down the road. Likely, you want your partner to lose weight rather than burn down the whole house and hope you find some golden replacement.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I don't believe this for a second. Every single one of those so-called "Chads" would trade their Plain Jane for a gorgeous bombshell if given the chance.

The Chads with the Plain Janes are smart. Never, I repeat NEVER, marry a woman who's a HB8+. It's an expedited direct route to Divorce-ville--guaranteed--for more reasons than I care to type. Smart guys with assets will understand.