"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Unkown feeling about my relationship

d2j

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(I previously write a post about my girlfriend getting her ex to fix her car)

I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and im starting to get a feeling that the relationship is coming to an end.

I think im feeling this because she doesnt seem as excited about the relationship anymore.

No matter how much ****y + funny i put on or how charming i be.. the reaction level is lower

In the thought that i might be comming across as "arogant" I even tried being "sensitive" by asking all about her and how she was at home. Kissing her body. Slow romantic sex with candles ect

I'm getting an imediate reaction of attraction but then she just loses concentration and thinks about something totally different.

Whereas before she would stay on me ...

It's not like theres nothing to look forward to either. Holiday together in 2 weeks.

Supposed to see her thursday but i think im going to put it off until saturday night.. Just to see if its missing me that she needs

Any ideas for what this might be ?

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX

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Behaviour change from the norm be it overly bad behaviour or good behaviour is always a bad sign in my experience.

If your gut instinct is telling you things are coming to a close listen to it.

It is the only thing in life that will never ever lie to you.
 

sav

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KontrollerX said:
Behaviour change from the norm be it overly bad behaviour or good behaviour is always a bad sign in my experience.

If your gut instinct is telling you things are coming to a close listen to it.

It is the only thing in life that will never ever lie to you.
spot on advice. change in behavior = something changed in her life..

be it attraction towards you or another **** in her...

gut instinct is what you are born with and will die with, as much as you want it to lie, it hardly ever does. learn to trust it...
 
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