"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unkown feeling about my relationship

d2j

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(I previously write a post about my girlfriend getting her ex to fix her car)

I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and im starting to get a feeling that the relationship is coming to an end.

I think im feeling this because she doesnt seem as excited about the relationship anymore.

No matter how much ****y + funny i put on or how charming i be.. the reaction level is lower

In the thought that i might be comming across as "arogant" I even tried being "sensitive" by asking all about her and how she was at home. Kissing her body. Slow romantic sex with candles ect

I'm getting an imediate reaction of attraction but then she just loses concentration and thinks about something totally different.

Whereas before she would stay on me ...

It's not like theres nothing to look forward to either. Holiday together in 2 weeks.

Supposed to see her thursday but i think im going to put it off until saturday night.. Just to see if its missing me that she needs

Any ideas for what this might be ?

Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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Behaviour change from the norm be it overly bad behaviour or good behaviour is always a bad sign in my experience.

If your gut instinct is telling you things are coming to a close listen to it.

It is the only thing in life that will never ever lie to you.
 

sav

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KontrollerX said:
Behaviour change from the norm be it overly bad behaviour or good behaviour is always a bad sign in my experience.

If your gut instinct is telling you things are coming to a close listen to it.

It is the only thing in life that will never ever lie to you.
spot on advice. change in behavior = something changed in her life..

be it attraction towards you or another **** in her...

gut instinct is what you are born with and will die with, as much as you want it to lie, it hardly ever does. learn to trust it...
 
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