"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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(I previously write a post about my girlfriend getting her ex to fix her car)

I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and im starting to get a feeling that the relationship is coming to an end.

I think im feeling this because she doesnt seem as excited about the relationship anymore.

No matter how much ****y + funny i put on or how charming i be.. the reaction level is lower

In the thought that i might be comming across as "arogant" I even tried being "sensitive" by asking all about her and how she was at home. Kissing her body. Slow romantic sex with candles ect

I'm getting an imediate reaction of attraction but then she just loses concentration and thinks about something totally different.

Whereas before she would stay on me ...

It's not like theres nothing to look forward to either. Holiday together in 2 weeks.

Supposed to see her thursday but i think im going to put it off until saturday night.. Just to see if its missing me that she needs

Any ideas for what this might be ?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Behaviour change from the norm be it overly bad behaviour or good behaviour is always a bad sign in my experience.

If your gut instinct is telling you things are coming to a close listen to it.

It is the only thing in life that will never ever lie to you.
 
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KontrollerX said:
Behaviour change from the norm be it overly bad behaviour or good behaviour is always a bad sign in my experience.

If your gut instinct is telling you things are coming to a close listen to it.

It is the only thing in life that will never ever lie to you.
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spot on advice. change in behavior = something changed in her life..

be it attraction towards you or another **** in her...

gut instinct is what you are born with and will die with, as much as you want it to lie, it hardly ever does. learn to trust it...
 
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