"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigblock7

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Alright here we go. To put it short and sweet I have come out of my shell the last couple years and I have better confidence. I rarely get nervous and I'm not afraid to spark up a conversation. Anyway , point being , I DO find it easy to talk to girls at uni but going for a number grab or a coffee/lunch date-thingo I find a bit awkward. I find it easier at clubs to hit on girls because I'm in a social atmosphere where people are partying and women expect to be hit on , unlike at uni where it is more of a study environment.

So how would I best go out getting numbers/asking them out?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SirFratserlot

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Id say your best bet is having a good set of friends(social group). The only reason I know this girl is because my friends hooked me up with her.
 

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In day game it should be more about the interaction itself for you, rather than night game where you're more focused on results. At uni or wherever don't go in with the attitude that you're going to pick this girl up, just approach with the intention of having a good flirty interaction. If you successfully do that then the two of you will naturally want to spend more time with each other and arranging this will come easily.
 

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The easiest way to hook up in college is at parties/college bars. You could easily meet a girl and fvck her that same night. I wouldn't be looking to set up future dates from girls you meet at night. Make your first date with her that same night you meet her. Invite her to your place or to another venue after, get her alone and work your game. A lot of girls are just looking to hook up.

Otherwise I met other hookups through clubs, work or through other friends. Day game is easier when you share a common ground. So join clubs or participate in events to meet people. It's probably harder to meet girls in class but it could definitely be done. Be social and smile. College will be the best days of your life. Cherish it.
 

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Thans for your responces guys. Here in australia though the 'college party scene ' is somewhat non-existant compared to the states.I have noticed though that since iv hit the gym and gained a frame iv been getting more looks from the youngins. I think i t might also have to do with the fact im a bit older the majority of girls in my course.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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