Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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bigblock7

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Alright here we go. To put it short and sweet I have come out of my shell the last couple years and I have better confidence. I rarely get nervous and I'm not afraid to spark up a conversation. Anyway , point being , I DO find it easy to talk to girls at uni but going for a number grab or a coffee/lunch date-thingo I find a bit awkward. I find it easier at clubs to hit on girls because I'm in a social atmosphere where people are partying and women expect to be hit on , unlike at uni where it is more of a study environment.

So how would I best go out getting numbers/asking them out?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SirFratserlot

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Id say your best bet is having a good set of friends(social group). The only reason I know this girl is because my friends hooked me up with her.
 

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In day game it should be more about the interaction itself for you, rather than night game where you're more focused on results. At uni or wherever don't go in with the attitude that you're going to pick this girl up, just approach with the intention of having a good flirty interaction. If you successfully do that then the two of you will naturally want to spend more time with each other and arranging this will come easily.
 

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The easiest way to hook up in college is at parties/college bars. You could easily meet a girl and fvck her that same night. I wouldn't be looking to set up future dates from girls you meet at night. Make your first date with her that same night you meet her. Invite her to your place or to another venue after, get her alone and work your game. A lot of girls are just looking to hook up.

Otherwise I met other hookups through clubs, work or through other friends. Day game is easier when you share a common ground. So join clubs or participate in events to meet people. It's probably harder to meet girls in class but it could definitely be done. Be social and smile. College will be the best days of your life. Cherish it.
 

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Thans for your responces guys. Here in australia though the 'college party scene ' is somewhat non-existant compared to the states.I have noticed though that since iv hit the gym and gained a frame iv been getting more looks from the youngins. I think i t might also have to do with the fact im a bit older the majority of girls in my course.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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