"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigblock7

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Alright here we go. To put it short and sweet I have come out of my shell the last couple years and I have better confidence. I rarely get nervous and I'm not afraid to spark up a conversation. Anyway , point being , I DO find it easy to talk to girls at uni but going for a number grab or a coffee/lunch date-thingo I find a bit awkward. I find it easier at clubs to hit on girls because I'm in a social atmosphere where people are partying and women expect to be hit on , unlike at uni where it is more of a study environment.

So how would I best go out getting numbers/asking them out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SirFratserlot

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Id say your best bet is having a good set of friends(social group). The only reason I know this girl is because my friends hooked me up with her.
 

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In day game it should be more about the interaction itself for you, rather than night game where you're more focused on results. At uni or wherever don't go in with the attitude that you're going to pick this girl up, just approach with the intention of having a good flirty interaction. If you successfully do that then the two of you will naturally want to spend more time with each other and arranging this will come easily.
 

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The easiest way to hook up in college is at parties/college bars. You could easily meet a girl and fvck her that same night. I wouldn't be looking to set up future dates from girls you meet at night. Make your first date with her that same night you meet her. Invite her to your place or to another venue after, get her alone and work your game. A lot of girls are just looking to hook up.

Otherwise I met other hookups through clubs, work or through other friends. Day game is easier when you share a common ground. So join clubs or participate in events to meet people. It's probably harder to meet girls in class but it could definitely be done. Be social and smile. College will be the best days of your life. Cherish it.
 

bigblock7

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Thans for your responces guys. Here in australia though the 'college party scene ' is somewhat non-existant compared to the states.I have noticed though that since iv hit the gym and gained a frame iv been getting more looks from the youngins. I think i t might also have to do with the fact im a bit older the majority of girls in my course.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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