"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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University Film Groups

lebRambo

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hey all.

well, the ANU film group is starting up again this semester, and I was thinking about joining, cause I thought it might be a good place to meet women. Y'know, the arty liberal arts types, cause they screen a lot of foreign and less mainstream films. Has anyone had any experience with university film groups?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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ya put on a porn movie, and tell them its acting class, gets'um every time :cheer:
 

lebRambo

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no seriously dude. what do you reckon? i'm not going to waste money on a subscription for the film group when it could be full of guys.
 

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Join anyway, regardless of girls. I took a film class at my college and learned an incredible amount and can appreciate good movies, and make fun of bad movies :), much better now.

If possible you should check out these avante guard films:

Un Chien Andalou
The Begotten
Razor Blades (haven't been able to find a copy of this one, but looks mind-blowing)

My textbook for the course, Understanding Movies by Louis Gianetti, was excellent and I recommend you take a look at it.
 

lebRambo

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its not a class dude, its this extra-curricular club thing when you pay like $30 for the semester and watch movies a couple of nights a week in one of the bigger lecture theatres that have the 9m screen.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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