"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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University Film Groups

lebRambo

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hey all.

well, the ANU film group is starting up again this semester, and I was thinking about joining, cause I thought it might be a good place to meet women. Y'know, the arty liberal arts types, cause they screen a lot of foreign and less mainstream films. Has anyone had any experience with university film groups?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ya put on a porn movie, and tell them its acting class, gets'um every time :cheer:
 

lebRambo

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no seriously dude. what do you reckon? i'm not going to waste money on a subscription for the film group when it could be full of guys.
 

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Join anyway, regardless of girls. I took a film class at my college and learned an incredible amount and can appreciate good movies, and make fun of bad movies :), much better now.

If possible you should check out these avante guard films:

Un Chien Andalou
The Begotten
Razor Blades (haven't been able to find a copy of this one, but looks mind-blowing)

My textbook for the course, Understanding Movies by Louis Gianetti, was excellent and I recommend you take a look at it.
 

lebRambo

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its not a class dude, its this extra-curricular club thing when you pay like $30 for the semester and watch movies a couple of nights a week in one of the bigger lecture theatres that have the 9m screen.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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