"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Long story short. I'm on house arrest for something I didn't do. It is what it is. I have a good job. House. Boat. Nice car. I'd say I'm an attractive man and I regularly work out. So, my problem...

I am recently going through a divorce from a woman after being with her for 5 years. She was gorgeous and in my book a 10. I alpha'd my way into the relationship but beta'd my way out. I just somewhere became an AFC and assume thats the reason she left.

So, I am on house arrest. Embarrassingly.. I have 11 months to go. What are my options here. Do I just work on my inner game for 11 months and be ready then for some action. Right now I am working girls I know, most of which are understanding of the house arrest. But I must face reality and understand that I am not exactly in a position to seem qualified..

Help..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are lots of things you can do in 11 months
Some examples:
Gym, work outs
Learn a new language
Read as many books as you can
You can use internet to get chicks, like FB, POF and OKC.
these are some ideas i got
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Johnnyventana said:
That was sarcasm.
Yeah, I assumed.

There are lots of things you can do in 11 months
Some examples:
Gym, work outs
Learn a new language
Read as many books as you can
You can use internet to get chicks, like FB, POF and OKC.
these are some ideas i got
I work out at home. I worked out pretty steady for the last year or so. But took a 2 month lapse and am back at it now that my house arrest has started.

I do read quite a bit. A lot of different stuff. Not a fiction reader. I've always read a lot regardless, now I just have more time.

I have been working Facebook. Fortunately prior to this past relationship and during I've always been an active person. I have diving pictures and many pictures in extreme conditions camping or backpacking or out with friends. Lots of action photos.

The crazy thing is that I have several girls I've been kinda working and none of them have been turned off yet by the house arrest ordeal. The hottest one I told her because she asked me out for a drink that night. I told her I couldn't because I was on house arrest. She said, "I guess that means I have to come over there for drinks, and you can cook me dinner." I like to cook but still may work that one as a cook together kind of deal. Women have always seemed to like that and I don't appear to be putting her on a pedestal.

I alpha'd my way into the last relationship/marriage and beta'd my way out. I know what it takes and I'm finding that again. Just have to learn to stay that way. Thats been my problem. Worse case situation I figured I'd spend the next 11 months working on me, since I have more time and opportunity than normal. Then I'll put myself on the market stronger, better and ready.

Any more suggestions?
 

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saltynipple said:
Long story short. I'm on house arrest for something I didn't do. It is what it is. I have a good job. House. Boat. Nice car. I'd say I'm an attractive man and I regularly work out. So, my problem...

I am recently going through a divorce from a woman after being with her for 5 years. She was gorgeous and in my book a 10. I alpha'd my way into the relationship but beta'd my way out. I just somewhere became an AFC and assume thats the reason she left.

So, I am on house arrest. Embarrassingly.. I have 11 months to go. What are my options here. Do I just work on my inner game for 11 months and be ready then for some action. Right now I am working girls I know, most of which are understanding of the house arrest. But I must face reality and understand that I am not exactly in a position to seem qualified..

Help..
Consider yourself lucky you didn't end up with 11 months in prison while "Big Jimbo" practiced his version of Alpha 'inner game' on your Beta'd poop chute.
 

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One thing i do is to learn about different things going on around the world, this you can get by watching news.
I saw a movie called Limitless, that movie is a good one if you want to watch.

If you are not good at making chicks laugh you can work on that.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Consider yourself lucky you didn't end up with 11 months in prison while "Big Jimbo" practiced his version of Alpha 'inner game' on your Beta'd poop chute.
Yes, I consider myself lucky to have not met bubba.. And to have my "poop chute" unadultered.

Nonetheless.. It is what it is.. I'm not going to make excuses or try to convince anyone of anything. I am just going to improve my game, my life and the rest will come.
 
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