"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unique Situation.

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Long story short. I'm on house arrest for something I didn't do. It is what it is. I have a good job. House. Boat. Nice car. I'd say I'm an attractive man and I regularly work out. So, my problem...

I am recently going through a divorce from a woman after being with her for 5 years. She was gorgeous and in my book a 10. I alpha'd my way into the relationship but beta'd my way out. I just somewhere became an AFC and assume thats the reason she left.

So, I am on house arrest. Embarrassingly.. I have 11 months to go. What are my options here. Do I just work on my inner game for 11 months and be ready then for some action. Right now I am working girls I know, most of which are understanding of the house arrest. But I must face reality and understand that I am not exactly in a position to seem qualified..

Help..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There are lots of things you can do in 11 months
Some examples:
Gym, work outs
Learn a new language
Read as many books as you can
You can use internet to get chicks, like FB, POF and OKC.
these are some ideas i got
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Johnnyventana said:
That was sarcasm.
Yeah, I assumed.

There are lots of things you can do in 11 months
Some examples:
Gym, work outs
Learn a new language
Read as many books as you can
You can use internet to get chicks, like FB, POF and OKC.
these are some ideas i got
I work out at home. I worked out pretty steady for the last year or so. But took a 2 month lapse and am back at it now that my house arrest has started.

I do read quite a bit. A lot of different stuff. Not a fiction reader. I've always read a lot regardless, now I just have more time.

I have been working Facebook. Fortunately prior to this past relationship and during I've always been an active person. I have diving pictures and many pictures in extreme conditions camping or backpacking or out with friends. Lots of action photos.

The crazy thing is that I have several girls I've been kinda working and none of them have been turned off yet by the house arrest ordeal. The hottest one I told her because she asked me out for a drink that night. I told her I couldn't because I was on house arrest. She said, "I guess that means I have to come over there for drinks, and you can cook me dinner." I like to cook but still may work that one as a cook together kind of deal. Women have always seemed to like that and I don't appear to be putting her on a pedestal.

I alpha'd my way into the last relationship/marriage and beta'd my way out. I know what it takes and I'm finding that again. Just have to learn to stay that way. Thats been my problem. Worse case situation I figured I'd spend the next 11 months working on me, since I have more time and opportunity than normal. Then I'll put myself on the market stronger, better and ready.

Any more suggestions?
 

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saltynipple said:
Long story short. I'm on house arrest for something I didn't do. It is what it is. I have a good job. House. Boat. Nice car. I'd say I'm an attractive man and I regularly work out. So, my problem...

I am recently going through a divorce from a woman after being with her for 5 years. She was gorgeous and in my book a 10. I alpha'd my way into the relationship but beta'd my way out. I just somewhere became an AFC and assume thats the reason she left.

So, I am on house arrest. Embarrassingly.. I have 11 months to go. What are my options here. Do I just work on my inner game for 11 months and be ready then for some action. Right now I am working girls I know, most of which are understanding of the house arrest. But I must face reality and understand that I am not exactly in a position to seem qualified..

Help..
Consider yourself lucky you didn't end up with 11 months in prison while "Big Jimbo" practiced his version of Alpha 'inner game' on your Beta'd poop chute.
 

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One thing i do is to learn about different things going on around the world, this you can get by watching news.
I saw a movie called Limitless, that movie is a good one if you want to watch.

If you are not good at making chicks laugh you can work on that.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Consider yourself lucky you didn't end up with 11 months in prison while "Big Jimbo" practiced his version of Alpha 'inner game' on your Beta'd poop chute.
Yes, I consider myself lucky to have not met bubba.. And to have my "poop chute" unadultered.

Nonetheless.. It is what it is.. I'm not going to make excuses or try to convince anyone of anything. I am just going to improve my game, my life and the rest will come.
 
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