"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jwhite17

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Hey Guys,

I get it she has low interest...I think I wanted to beleive something different, so I won't be blinded by my infatuation again!

I don't know why I got oneitis for Sammi so quickly. Logically, it doesn't make any sense to me. Usually, it takes awhile for me to even like a girl for anything more than a short time fling.

She pushed the right buttons or something. Anyway, I met a NEW girl last night, so I’m in the process of moving meeting BETTER GIRLS that show consisntent high interest.

General question: how many plates can you spin?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DMEDFISIK

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jwhite17 said:
General question: how many plates can you spin?
As many as your time and schedule allow. With my schedule I can only handle 2 or 3 max at a time. From working on my dissertation, the gym, playing my piano, hanging with my friends, etc. there's only so much space I have to fit women.
 
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