"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jwhite17

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Hey Guys,

I get it she has low interest...I think I wanted to beleive something different, so I won't be blinded by my infatuation again!

I don't know why I got oneitis for Sammi so quickly. Logically, it doesn't make any sense to me. Usually, it takes awhile for me to even like a girl for anything more than a short time fling.

She pushed the right buttons or something. Anyway, I met a NEW girl last night, so I’m in the process of moving meeting BETTER GIRLS that show consisntent high interest.

General question: how many plates can you spin?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DMEDFISIK

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jwhite17 said:
General question: how many plates can you spin?
As many as your time and schedule allow. With my schedule I can only handle 2 or 3 max at a time. From working on my dissertation, the gym, playing my piano, hanging with my friends, etc. there's only so much space I have to fit women.
 
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