"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Unethical to plate nice, but unattractive girls?

Jifto

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I just got out of a thing with a girl that I would rate a 8. I've talked about it in another post, and I don't want to dive into it again, but she treated me poorly and its better that its over. That said, I'm having a bit of a time getting over it (and its been almost a month at this point).

OLD is yielding only 5s-6s. These girls seem nice and interested in me, but I know that I could never LTR them due to low attraction levels. Is it wrong to plate them? Sorry if this is obvious, I'm still new to this game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dustmuffin

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Look just plate the 5-6s and gain confidence. Who says you need to LTR them? Just have s ex and entertainment. Improve your game and go for the better girls when you have improved.
 

wifehunter

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No, talk to them, make connections...there's hot chicks in the background, almost guaranteed! !!
 

Masculinity

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I just got out of a thing with a girl that I would rate a 8. I've talked about it in another post, and I don't want to dive into it again, but she treated me poorly and its better that its over. That said, I'm having a bit of a time getting over it (and its been almost a month at this point).

OLD is yielding only 5s-6s. These girls seem nice and interested in me, but I know that I could never LTR them due to low attraction levels. Is it wrong to plate them? Sorry if this is obvious, I'm still new to this game.
If she disrespected you, move on with life and don't look back. As for the next part of the thread, I want to help you but I don't understand what you're trying to ask. Can you be specific?
 

Konada

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Go for girls you are attracted to. Plating girls you are unattracted to is not only a waste of your time but also destroys your self-esteem if they reject you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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