"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unethical to plate nice, but unattractive girls?

Jifto

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I just got out of a thing with a girl that I would rate a 8. I've talked about it in another post, and I don't want to dive into it again, but she treated me poorly and its better that its over. That said, I'm having a bit of a time getting over it (and its been almost a month at this point).

OLD is yielding only 5s-6s. These girls seem nice and interested in me, but I know that I could never LTR them due to low attraction levels. Is it wrong to plate them? Sorry if this is obvious, I'm still new to this game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dustmuffin

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Look just plate the 5-6s and gain confidence. Who says you need to LTR them? Just have s ex and entertainment. Improve your game and go for the better girls when you have improved.
 

wifehunter

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No, talk to them, make connections...there's hot chicks in the background, almost guaranteed! !!
 

Masculinity

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I just got out of a thing with a girl that I would rate a 8. I've talked about it in another post, and I don't want to dive into it again, but she treated me poorly and its better that its over. That said, I'm having a bit of a time getting over it (and its been almost a month at this point).

OLD is yielding only 5s-6s. These girls seem nice and interested in me, but I know that I could never LTR them due to low attraction levels. Is it wrong to plate them? Sorry if this is obvious, I'm still new to this game.
If she disrespected you, move on with life and don't look back. As for the next part of the thread, I want to help you but I don't understand what you're trying to ask. Can you be specific?
 

Konada

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Go for girls you are attracted to. Plating girls you are unattracted to is not only a waste of your time but also destroys your self-esteem if they reject you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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