understanding neediness.

[reset]

Im not sure how all this can be sinking in at the rate you're going here.

 

[Mavrick]

Im not sure how all this can be sinking in at the rate you're going here.

He's like a speeding locomotive asking question like a little kid, but I admire his tenacity.

 

[ketostix]

OK the reason neediness is a turn off for women is because women are selfish. They're not interested in your needs only they're own. But also the reason it is a turn off is because it subcommunicates that you don't have other options with women. Women simply desire what other girls want. It ties in with jealousy, and women wanting a challenge (if something is harder to get it must be valuable) and not wanting what they know they can have (if you are needy for them, then they know they have you, so they no longer want you). Some of the women in this thread were confusing meediness with negativity and pessimism. Did I mention it was also because women are selfish and self-centered?

 

[sosilky]

OK the reason neediness is a turn off for women is because women are selfish. They're not interested in your needs only they're own. But also the reason it is a turn off is because it subcommunicates that you don't have other options with women. Women simply desire what other girls want. It ties in with jealousy, and women wanting a challenge (if something is harder to get it must be valuable) and not wanting what they know they can have (if you are needy for them, then they know they have you, so they no longer want you). Some of the women in this thread were confusing meediness with negativity and pessimism. Did I mention it was also because women are selfish and self-centered?

but she wanted to be exclusive so i let the other girls go. What am i supposed to do when i get married? have side til to keep in check? she'll just pull the same move and then the relationship is in the ****ter again.

 

[ketostix]

but she wanted to be exclusive so i let the other girls go. What am i supposed to do when i get married? have side til to keep in check? she'll just pull the same move and then the relationship is in the ****ter again.

Well there's no guarantees in life, Just ways to improve your odds and to accept the possible outcomes. If you do everything right then the odds that she won't cheat are probably a little better than 50%.