"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hell695

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first i have to say I'm really thankful this site its really helped me out alot

But there's one thing that I still wonder about how do i deal with under confident women. Its a problem because I'm in high school and nearly every women i know has some kind of confidence problem. So how do I deal with these women properly in order to game them, what i do now now is I be quiet listen and tell its
not true (because most of the time it's a girl that thinks she fat and ugly when really she isn't) so how do I deal with this without sounding like a afc nice guy:confused:

p.s i think this has to do with society pressuring girls to be really skinny which really isn't attractive (I like curvy women lol)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ready123

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are you sure it's a confidence problem? or are you stuck in the friend zone and don't know it

because even high self-esteem girls vent once in a while
 

T-Roy

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Ummm... No my girlfriend keeps saying she is fat. (Which she is not. Me and Hell go to the same school together. He sits with us all the time. Also one of my ex's is like that. We hang out with.)
 
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