"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hell695

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first i have to say I'm really thankful this site its really helped me out alot

But there's one thing that I still wonder about how do i deal with under confident women. Its a problem because I'm in high school and nearly every women i know has some kind of confidence problem. So how do I deal with these women properly in order to game them, what i do now now is I be quiet listen and tell its
not true (because most of the time it's a girl that thinks she fat and ugly when really she isn't) so how do I deal with this without sounding like a afc nice guy:confused:

p.s i think this has to do with society pressuring girls to be really skinny which really isn't attractive (I like curvy women lol)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ready123

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are you sure it's a confidence problem? or are you stuck in the friend zone and don't know it

because even high self-esteem girls vent once in a while
 

T-Roy

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Ummm... No my girlfriend keeps saying she is fat. (Which she is not. Me and Hell go to the same school together. He sits with us all the time. Also one of my ex's is like that. We hang out with.)
 
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