The Exile
Don Juan
Alot of DJS are talking bout clubs and stuff. What about us 18s-? I live in mississauga. Where the rest of you chillin at?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Underage DJs?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
imnexthere
Don Juan
I hear that. Im 17. Its problems.
hey exile, I live in Canada too and I goto to square 1 quite often. I live in maple though. Its like 2 minutes away from wonderland. I'm in mississugua sumtimes so if ya want gimme ur hotmail or msn and we'll talk.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
17, and goin to St Catherines, Canada in september
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Personally, I don't even like clubs. They're too crowded and I can't even buy alcohol. I prefer house parties and such. Find a place you can drop a keg. Call up a bunch of females and tell em what's up. You're bound to have a good time.