"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uncovered a PUA...

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I met this guy at orientation, and from the start i got this really creepy vibe from him. The way he would not make eye contact with me and and only focus on the girls.

Well there was this one chick he was after, that i liked. So i started talking to her whenever he was around, basically keeping him out of the loop Alpha style. It seemed to have worked and he no longer talks to her. He found some other chick.

I think i'm dealing with a MM follower, he:

Accessorizes

Was doing some magic trick on a girl... last time i saw him. :rolleyes:

This new girl is buying him lunch.


Should i c0ck block him again? Maybe he'll commit suicide. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KarmaSutra

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Play the Game said:
I think i'm dealing with a MM follower, he:

Accessorizes

Was doing some magic trick on a girl... last time i saw him. :rolleyes:

This new girl is buying him lunch.


Should i c0ck block him again? Maybe he'll commit suicide. :)

Why do you give a flying fvck what he's doing? So he's another clone so fvcking what? He's out there communicating with chicks. There are plenty of insecure fvckheads here who will never attempt to talk to a woman (despite his bullsh!t stories). If he has a chick buying him lunch you should get him on as your wingman and learn from each other. This is what a mature man with masculine boundaries and good direction would do.

KARMIC LAW # 21 - Use every opportunity to aid another brother in his quest to find himself. It will exponentially ascend your status and give you courage and confidence and possibly a friend.

How does c0ckblocking him aid in your progression as a man? It doesn't. Your focus is on the guy for what reason? Are you secretly enamored with him or his technique?
 

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I was at a party about a month back where a guy had two girls in the loop and was doing best-friends test, cube, number games, some magic trick crap, and one other thing I dont know what its called.

Some other guy at the party called him out on it for fun. the expression on the chicks faces when they found out wtf was up was priceless. the dude who was gaming them got pretty pissed at the amog, and they almost got in a fight. shoving and ****


I actually had a shot at one of the girls right after, giving the "who the fvck are these losers?" eyes to them and led them away. after that though they closed up tighter than a nun on sunday.

come to think of it that was a rough night.. same night that my afc wow-addict buddy scored a hb8(i'd say 9 but knowing you guys...) on his looks alone. i was happy for him but i get mad when guys score b/c of looks only. same girl who was brushing her tats up against me earlier that night and i had in my back pocket if nothing else came up.

lol he's a great buddy, love him to bits, but fvck its gay when he pulls. terrible convo skills, geeky mannerisms and no style but his orlando bloom meets johnny depp face gets 'er done.

Anyway yeah, watch out for PUAs.. and call them out on it, but be ready to get in a fight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KarmaSutra said:
Why do you give a flying fvck what he's doing? So he's another clone so fvcking what? He's out there communicating with chicks. There are plenty of insecure fvckheads here who will never attempt to talk to a woman (despite his bullsh!t stories). If he has a chick buying him lunch you should get him on as your wingman and learn from each other. This is what a mature man with masculine boundaries and good direction would do.

KARMIC LAW # 21 - Use every opportunity to aid another brother in his quest to find himself. It will exponentially ascend your status and give you courage and confidence and possibly a friend.

How does c0ckblocking him aid in your progression as a man? It doesn't. Your focus is on the guy for what reason? Are you secretly enamored with him or his technique?
Exactly what I was going to say.

You are in a completely wrong mindset, why so negative? You could learn things from him.
 

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Play the Game said:
Should i c0ck block him again? Maybe he'll commit suicide. :)
You sound like an a**hole. Instead of c0ck blocking some guy who hasn't done anything to you, why don't you work on your self?

Loser.
 

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I'd laugh if I was there, it's kind of funny to watch someone running a canned routine. However, it is also pretty crappy of you to do...but did I say funny?
 

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This has nothing to do with finding himself, in fact its completely the opposite. There is nothing i can learn from this low life besides some magic tricks, Negs and NLP manipulation, all canned routines that i've read books on.

Where's you spirit for the competition? PUA v. DJ.
 
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Next time you see him give him a nod of understanding, as if between two equals, then blow him & his canned sh!it out of the water, that canned sh!t wreeks of unoriginality and has no spontenaity about it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BluEyes said:
Anyway yeah, watch out for PUAs.. and call them out on it, but be ready to get in a fight.

I don't understand... why call them out?... Aren't we on each others team?

I would try and make friends... Or at least spit some talk and find out where they come from and what methods they are using.

.....If they were obviously using some crappy Trust test, best friends, the cube crap though I would certainly clue them in on the fact that they are being retarded. But I would still make friends and try and enlighten.... For gods sake I certainly wouldn't get in a fight about it :confused:
 

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WTG, man.... snag their girls and walk away with them.

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