"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Uncovered a PUA...

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I met this guy at orientation, and from the start i got this really creepy vibe from him. The way he would not make eye contact with me and and only focus on the girls.

Well there was this one chick he was after, that i liked. So i started talking to her whenever he was around, basically keeping him out of the loop Alpha style. It seemed to have worked and he no longer talks to her. He found some other chick.

I think i'm dealing with a MM follower, he:

Accessorizes

Was doing some magic trick on a girl... last time i saw him. :rolleyes:

This new girl is buying him lunch.


Should i c0ck block him again? Maybe he'll commit suicide. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Play the Game said:
I think i'm dealing with a MM follower, he:

Accessorizes

Was doing some magic trick on a girl... last time i saw him. :rolleyes:

This new girl is buying him lunch.


Should i c0ck block him again? Maybe he'll commit suicide. :)

Why do you give a flying fvck what he's doing? So he's another clone so fvcking what? He's out there communicating with chicks. There are plenty of insecure fvckheads here who will never attempt to talk to a woman (despite his bullsh!t stories). If he has a chick buying him lunch you should get him on as your wingman and learn from each other. This is what a mature man with masculine boundaries and good direction would do.

KARMIC LAW # 21 - Use every opportunity to aid another brother in his quest to find himself. It will exponentially ascend your status and give you courage and confidence and possibly a friend.

How does c0ckblocking him aid in your progression as a man? It doesn't. Your focus is on the guy for what reason? Are you secretly enamored with him or his technique?
 

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I was at a party about a month back where a guy had two girls in the loop and was doing best-friends test, cube, number games, some magic trick crap, and one other thing I dont know what its called.

Some other guy at the party called him out on it for fun. the expression on the chicks faces when they found out wtf was up was priceless. the dude who was gaming them got pretty pissed at the amog, and they almost got in a fight. shoving and ****


I actually had a shot at one of the girls right after, giving the "who the fvck are these losers?" eyes to them and led them away. after that though they closed up tighter than a nun on sunday.

come to think of it that was a rough night.. same night that my afc wow-addict buddy scored a hb8(i'd say 9 but knowing you guys...) on his looks alone. i was happy for him but i get mad when guys score b/c of looks only. same girl who was brushing her tats up against me earlier that night and i had in my back pocket if nothing else came up.

lol he's a great buddy, love him to bits, but fvck its gay when he pulls. terrible convo skills, geeky mannerisms and no style but his orlando bloom meets johnny depp face gets 'er done.

Anyway yeah, watch out for PUAs.. and call them out on it, but be ready to get in a fight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KarmaSutra said:
Why do you give a flying fvck what he's doing? So he's another clone so fvcking what? He's out there communicating with chicks. There are plenty of insecure fvckheads here who will never attempt to talk to a woman (despite his bullsh!t stories). If he has a chick buying him lunch you should get him on as your wingman and learn from each other. This is what a mature man with masculine boundaries and good direction would do.

KARMIC LAW # 21 - Use every opportunity to aid another brother in his quest to find himself. It will exponentially ascend your status and give you courage and confidence and possibly a friend.

How does c0ckblocking him aid in your progression as a man? It doesn't. Your focus is on the guy for what reason? Are you secretly enamored with him or his technique?
Exactly what I was going to say.

You are in a completely wrong mindset, why so negative? You could learn things from him.
 

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Play the Game said:
Should i c0ck block him again? Maybe he'll commit suicide. :)
You sound like an a**hole. Instead of c0ck blocking some guy who hasn't done anything to you, why don't you work on your self?

Loser.
 

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I'd laugh if I was there, it's kind of funny to watch someone running a canned routine. However, it is also pretty crappy of you to do...but did I say funny?
 

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This has nothing to do with finding himself, in fact its completely the opposite. There is nothing i can learn from this low life besides some magic tricks, Negs and NLP manipulation, all canned routines that i've read books on.

Where's you spirit for the competition? PUA v. DJ.
 
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Next time you see him give him a nod of understanding, as if between two equals, then blow him & his canned sh!it out of the water, that canned sh!t wreeks of unoriginality and has no spontenaity about it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BluEyes said:
Anyway yeah, watch out for PUAs.. and call them out on it, but be ready to get in a fight.

I don't understand... why call them out?... Aren't we on each others team?

I would try and make friends... Or at least spit some talk and find out where they come from and what methods they are using.

.....If they were obviously using some crappy Trust test, best friends, the cube crap though I would certainly clue them in on the fact that they are being retarded. But I would still make friends and try and enlighten.... For gods sake I certainly wouldn't get in a fight about it :confused:
 

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WTG, man.... snag their girls and walk away with them.

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