uncontrived questions,?

[ALPHAROMEO]

THINK OF 3 places or three opportunities where IT d be ok and natural to use an appropriate opener

the street
" where is the station "?
IN THE SUPERMARKET
is that cheese mature?

is tht wine ok to use for a fondue?


"i am a foreign student my teacher gave me this q which FRENCH singer has written this song?"


natural congruent appropriate not contrived questions do you get it?

 

[Ease]

i dont understand any of your threads

 

[scrouds]

I'll play with this one.

Lets say I'm in the stupormarket, by the fruit. I turn to the hot girl walking by and say "how do you tell which are the best pair of melons?"

How about i peek in her basket and say "hey, what are you making me tonight?"

Also, there's the classic "do you have any eggs? I'd like some eggs for breakfat tomorrow."


Who cares if its contrived or not? Natural openers open quick then die quick. You ask a question, you get an answer, you move on. No matter what you say, if you want to stick around and chat, its going to be contrived somehow.

How's this to open, just go up to a chick and ask if she likes pie. Its probably a better opener then asking how good she is with wine pairings.

 

[macallik]

OP's post was meh but I do see the validity with uncontrived questions. A contrived question automatically puts the spotlight on you as a male being interested in her as a female.

An uncontrived question is disarming because it gives a context other than the dating scene to focus on, if only for an opener. I can see all of the examples you gave working.

Saying something random like "Do you like pie" while you are nowhere near a marketplace is also better than a contrived opener in my opinion because its randomness doesn't allow the target the assumption that you are hitting on her most times.