Uncomfortable Situation with the G/F of a Friend

[Tazman]

Wow, aside from the disagreements, "comprehension" seems to be a real problem in this thread.

 

[Durden Tyler]

Many Times

STR8UP, this has happened to me many many times. Hell, if I didn't believe in Bro's before Hoe's my pvssy count would be doubled in the the last couple of years not to mention the pvssy is hotter then what I have been dragging in. I just continue to be friendly and ignore any flirting/advances.

Although I must admit, it is fvcking difficult to have this hot chick practically sit on me "to show me pictures on her phone" with those BIG FAKE T!TTIES in my damn face!

My theory to this is when I'm with friends and their gf's I am completely myself. I don't get choked up talking or act like I'm after something. I'm just me. Take it or leave it. They want to take it. I wish I had this mentallity all the time.

 

[jophil28]

The latest update on Jodi Gordon (She was the live-in G/f of the son and heir to a major TV network. She was also a party loving, cocaine sniffing soap star. He was the three piece suit from an old money family.SHe went on a GNO recently, and then to her favorite seedy bar, and later went with a badazz crim/biker to his apt. They were found the next day in a bad state after her B/f reported her MIA. The cops rescued her after she called them, full of chemicals and paranoia.)

Now -- Her boyfriend has dumped her. He moved her stuff out of their multi-million dollar home and canceled their marriage plans.. Her TV soap contact will not be renewed, and she is whining in all the supermarket mags about how her "life is in ruins ".
Her idiot father has lashed out publicly (with expletives) at the boyfriend calling him a "wuss" and not a "real man" for not standing by his daughter in her "hour of trouble".

Sometimes woman do reap what they sow.

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

I hope that story gets all the exposure it deserves. If I was writing for a national instead of a local paper, I'd get it in.

STR8UP - you are a c0cksvcker, straightup. I've been with you all along, but your little comment about "take a tour in Iraq, it'll make you a real man pffft" should be said aloud in public so an ex-Marine like myself can about face and k!ck your fvcking @ss. I saw my friends blown to pieces, and we endured things a lifelong civilian PUNK like you cannot possibly imagine.

Your attempt to discredit the honor and courage of veterans is as feeble as your own character and, consequently, your manhood.

 

[STR8UP]

I hope that story gets all the exposure it deserves. If I was writing for a national instead of a local paper, I'd get it in.

STR8UP - you are a c0cksvcker, straightup. I've been with you all along, but your little comment about "take a tour in Iraq, it'll make you a real man pffft" should be said aloud in public so an ex-Marine like myself can about face and k!ck your fvcking @ss. I saw my friends blown to pieces, and we endured things a lifelong civilian PUNK like you cannot possibly imagine.

Your attempt to discredit the honor and courage of veterans is as feeble as your own character and, consequently, your manhood.

Dude, get your panties out of a wad.

I wasn't slamming someone who chooses to join the military, I was illustrating the point that sacrificing yourself for someone else's agenda doesn't make you a real man, whether it be for a woman or for society.

A lot of people would agree that the lives lost in Iraq were senseless killings.



This is the problem with men these days. You're brainwashed into automatically believing that since you are a man, you were born to sacrifice yourself for the good of society. Whether it's playing Cap'n save-a-ho or jumping in front of a bullet, you think your life is worth so little that

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

Wrong. Eighteen year old guys don't join the Marines because they're so eager to die, they do so because they want to live. They want to know what brotherhood is. Honor, courage, and unselfish gallantry are not the Disney movie, "feminized social conventions" you rationalize them to be. But men can only know these things by chancing death, never by chasing women.

It was far worse than the cost of not joining.

 

[jophil28]

This is the problem with men these days. You're brainwashed into automatically believing that since you are a man, you were born to sacrifice yourself for the good of society. Whether it's playing Cap'n save-a-ho or jumping in front of a bullet, you think your life is worth so little that

You are getting VERY close to offending a lot of vets, both serving and retired . Back off this one STR8.. it is not a scrap you want to start.

 

[STR8UP]

Wrong. Eighteen year old guys don't join the Marines because they're so eager to die, they do so because they want to live. They want to know what brotherhood is. Honor, courage, and unselfish gallantry are not the Disney movie, "feminized social conventions" you rationalize them to be. But men can only know these things by chancing death, never by chasing women.

It was far worse than the cost of not joining.

I'm not saying that they are eager to die. I don't doubt that the military instills positive traits in a man, but I don't buy the fact that there is a "high price for not joining".

See areas in bold. This is exactly what I was talking about. I have a HUGE problem with these terms such as "Honor" and "Unselfish Gallantry". They are used to convince men that they are DISPOSABLE, in the same way society shames men into dating single mommies and sticking with a wife that gets fat.

The one thing that I DO think is very important is courage, and that can be obtained from things such as martial arts training and putting your balls on the line in business and investing.

What is a more useful skill in today's world? Knowing how to shoot an assault rifle, or knowing how to build a successful business?

Think about your beliefs carefully. Many of them were instilled in you not for your own good but for someone elses.

You are getting VERY close to offending a lot of vets, both serving and retired . Back off this one STR8.. it is not a scrap you want to start.

That part was supposed to be deleted due to the fact that it wasn't the best way to express my thoughts, but I make no apologies. If it offends someone I know they haven't stopped for a second to think about it.

 

[ketostix]

What I think is men naturally have a warrior and protector drive and it serves a very useful purpose. In modern times this has sometimes been misdirected by politicians but that in no way should be held against those that served regardless if the mission was wise or not. The politician are misdirecting us all. I think this should be separated from the concept of things like feminism etc. You had knights, chivalry and honor in the past and women were feminine. Keep in mind most liberals and feminist are anti-war. If everyone thought sacrificing was not worth it. The US would still be under British control or maybe German. I think the big problem today is almost the opposite of self-sacrific. People have become so self-centered they are ruining things. For example, out of greed we are giving all our wealth away to china.

 

[jophil28]

That part was supposed to be deleted due to the fact that it wasn't the best way to express my thoughts, but I make no apologies. If it offends someone I know they haven't stopped for a second to think about it.

Ahh, never mind...you will never understand why men are prepared to risk their lives to give you the freedom to insult their sacrifice.

 

[STR8UP]

Ahh, never mind...you will never understand why men are prepared to risk their lives to give you the freedom to insult their sacrifice.

No, you don't understand the fact that I am not insulting their sacrifice, I am pointing out the fundamental mistake most guys make getting caught up in the groupthink that leads them to believe that they are actually getting a fair return on their investment.

For every famous general that goes down in the history books there are untold 1000's who risk their lives for a government pension (if they stick with it long enough) and hopefully a few extra pieces of pu$$y they get when they don the uniform in public.

Yea, women like guys in uniform. That's not enough to make me want to dodge bullets. I will find another way to contribute, thank you.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

their weakness often lies in their ability to follow orders without question.

As with many things in life, this is both a strength and a weakness depending on context as well as one's perspective.

 

[KontrollerX]

Wrong. Eighteen year old guys don't join the Marines because they're so eager to die, they do so because they want to live. They want to know what brotherhood is. Honor, courage, and unselfish gallantry are not the Disney movie, "feminized social conventions" you rationalize them to be. But men can only know these things by chancing death, never by chasing women.

It was far worse than the cost of not joining.

The military is not supposed to be some brotherhood academy and a place where one goes to learn to be a man.

Technically it is only supposed to be about being a public servant like a police officer is supposed to be.

Unfortunately these professions are both polluted with bullies, type A personality assh0les and boy men trapped in childhood mentally as they grew up without strong male role models and that includes even guys who had a father that stuck around.

Ultimately what the military of today is, is a giant gang owned by rich assh0les.

Anyone who feels they need to join up to become a man obviously isn't much of a thinker.

There are many other ways and means to build true character and brotherhood without gunning down poor people for rich greedy assh0les.

Volunteering at a homeless shelter, working for big brothers big sisters, biking for charity, being a volunteer fireman, building houses for habitat for humanity and on and on it goes.

The only reason the military appeals to young guys is because the propaganda box that being our televisions constantly promotes being used as expendable cannon fodder for corrupt ends as something noble and it also helps the propaganda campaign to cynically appeal to the male sense of aggression via showing military firepower guns and what have you.

I look at the youth who join the military as exactly what Henry Kissinger called them and that is "dumb animals to be used as foreign policy chess pieces".

Indeed the idea of blowing sh!t up, gunning down people with big guns and travelling the world on massive military vehicles appeals to the young dumb unthinking male, the weak evil and viscious male which John Adams said most men are.

Its a lot cooler in these weak males minds to sail the world and kill poor people with big violent weapons than it is to spend time with a child whose got no parents and act as a kind of mentor and its a lot cooler to blow sh!t up than it is to help nail a house together and fully assemble it.

Don't get me wrong though there are good people in the military and you usually know who they are when the mainstream media is deriding them.

Conscientious objectors, those that refuse evil orders to commit torture, those are the good guys, those are the true American patriots as well are the guys who initially bought all the B.S about WMD's and 911/Bin Laden and the cave only to come to the conclusion while in the service they had been lied to and then wanted out and wanted their own conscientious objector status.

Other than the few proud and the truly brave and the true Americans there are mostly just mindless drones total and complete validation of the Milgram experiment in service.

 

[jocca]

Also happened to me, was at a pub with a couple of mates from footy one of which had brought his g/f. Wouldnt leave me a lone all night to the point that I (told my mate who had also caught onto the fact I had to get out of there before it got to awkward)just got up and left quickly. Very bizzare and very disrespectful to my mate.