Uncomfortable hitting on women in bars/clubs

[stuka1939]

Why? The music is usually very loud and it is annoying to talk over the music.

It is VERY HARD to tell if the girl is with somebody. The last thing I need is some jealous guy getting in my face or sucker punching me for talking to his girl.

E.G. I see cute girls all the time in bars/clubs and I get a decent amount of looks from some of these women. However, most of the time there is a guy or two in their area who appears to be with their group.

As a general rule if there are other guys in their group, I stay away.

What is your take on this?

 

[CORVETTE06]

It is VERY HARD to tell if the girl is with somebody. The last thing I need is some jealous guy getting in my face or sucker punching me for talking to his girl.

if theres a problem they will let u know. obviously dont go up to a girl who is making out / dancing with a guy

but otherwise just go and see what happens. some girls just go with guys and are club friends. i went to clubs with girls and danced with them but we hit on other people. thats what a lot of people do. its more fun when u go to a club in a group.

 

[lookyoung]

Hitting on girls at the club is much easier for me than other places. I have hit on plenty of woman at clubs and have never got punched. If a guy says something than say I am sorry I did not know you guys were together and simply walk away. If you want to talk to girls in the club than talk to them. It is really stupid reason not to talk to a girl because your scared of getting you ass kicked.

I find it much more difficult to approach girls on the street. Coffeeshops, bookstore, etc. Everyone is sober and the game is much faster. It just seems that many people on this site say coffee shops and bookstores are a great place to sarge but to me it seems every girl is busy reading or has a b12tch shields up.

 

[ready123]

The last thing I need is some jealous guy getting in my face or sucker punching me for talking to his girl.

now when has that ever happened to you?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Hitting on girls at the club is much easier for me than other places. I have hit on plenty of woman at clubs and have never got punched. If a guy says something than say I am sorry I did not know you guys were together and simply walk away. If you want to talk to girls in the club than talk to them. It is really stupid reason not to talk to a girl because your scared of getting you ass kicked.

I find it much more difficult to approach girls on the street. Coffeeshops, bookstore, etc. Everyone is sober and the game is much faster. It just seems that many people on this site say coffee shops and bookstores are a great place to sarge but to me it seems every girl is busy reading or has a b12tch shields up.

Do you think that it's easier in clubs because there's more things readily available to talk about or do?

 

[Stéphane]

now when has that ever happened to you?

It happened to me, and it haven't stopped me from approaching.

 

[nismo-4]

It happened to me, and it haven't stopped me from approaching.

Corvette and lookyoung, great answers! *Hi-5!*

Stop being afraid of rejection. You'll face it eventually. Don't be a creep! If you're getting checked out by those women, get off your ass and talk to them!