"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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uncharted territory with HB9

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Well last night I was sitting with some girls, a HB9 walked by and I talked to her. She said she was throwing a birthday party so I give her my number. We do some kino-ing with her standing between my legs(I was on a barstool). As she grabs her money, I ask what she wants to drink, and she offers to buy me a drink. So she bought me a whiskey. I was flattered really. Though she seemed willing, I was afraid to escalate kino too much. :cry:
Her body felt amazing though.

When I was outside the doubt and the neediness started kicking in. As she left, I basically called her name, and she turned around to see what I wanted. I said: call me so I have your number. She said: "yeah ok" and quickly ran off.

I think I may have come off a bit too needy. On the other hand I could see it as rewarding her with an IOI for buying me that drink.

I know her brother pretty well, and I've known her platonically for a few years. Her brother has game, and he's done his best in keeping her off her pedestal.

So anyone have any opinions, advice or stories of similar experiences? I haven't been bought a drink by an HB in a pretty long time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im guessing she didn't call. you scared her off.
try again, you've already answered your question, if anything it just seemed like you were letting off some steam.
if you see her again, play it cool.
 

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justanothernormalguy said:
im guessing she didn't call. you scared her off.
try again, you've already answered your question, if anything it just seemed like you were letting off some steam.
if you see her again, play it cool.
No, she sent me a pretty sweet text. with a little x in it. And an Exclamation mark... about half an hour after I saw her.
 
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oh well then why are you asking? she obviously wanted you to have her number. Just play it like you would any other girl you will be fine.
 

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Let me tell you in more detail how the vibe between us changed during time.
Well I was attracted from the start of course since she is a 9. A number of months ago I went and visited her brother and she was doing some math homework so I tried to help her. Didn't help her much and she acted bratty. She negged me about that last week towards her friend.
Her friend is a real gossip-machine and only wants to know gossip. I made out with that girls ex-friend and nearly ****ed her, so maybe that's now resonated onto the HB9 through her friends curiosity towards me. I had assumed that my rapport with the HB9 was broken until recently, so I basically tried to ignore her though I couldn't stop admiring her ass.

Then last night I was talking to another HB9 and she walked by. That's when I tapped her on the arm and she gave me a hug and kisses. So my guess is she was feeling more needy than me at the time! As long as I didn't change the initial start of the situation too much, I should be fine.

Asking her to call/text so I have the number could be perceived as cracking under the pressure of insecurity. But what's wrong with having the number of someone who's supposed to call you?

Maybe she could see it as a DHV, because there might be people who try to call me whose calls I want to block, right? Maybe I don't pick up when I get called by "unknown numbers". Because there's so many girls stalking me.

So how do you guys think she perceives this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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