"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We should vote for unbanning Bradd80

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TheGambino

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This man meant a lot for the forum. He successfully turned theory into usefull practice. Actually usefull content that's easy to get in practice for every guy. His guidance helped me making a stronger man and I Thank HIM for his Work and effort. A part of that made it happen for me. 6 plates in my rotation and Im always in the position to cold approach and add a new dime without getting attached.

Couldnt dream of that in 2013.

The women problem I had is solved for life. Ofcourse I did iT myself and I fell down and stood up a 100 times, but iT made me who I am now.

I think I speak for a lot of men, his tone must be accepted, hes done too much.

I got This great respect because the keyboard jockeys make This forum a women study, that's not the purpose imo. Why overthink? We want to lay women in a easy and unstressfull manner.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Not sure what purpose the bans serve, they will just create a new account
 

SmooveMooves

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No. He broke the rules. You can't break the rules. He doesn't get a free pass because you got a emotional attachment to him. Dude went off his rocker.

Get a life. This is anonymous Internet forum.

Jesus you guys here are weird.
 

skinnyguy

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I wasn't bothered by him, but we can't keep children who break the rules on the forum. What did he do to get banned?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Die Hard

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I'm reading through Bradd's latest posts but I don't see anything like fighting or insulting or whatever. I don't challenge the decision to ban him but I'm just really curious what happened. Can anyone link me to the thread where he broke the rules??
 

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I'm reading through Bradd's latest posts but I don't see anything like fighting or insulting or whatever. I don't challenge the decision to ban him but I'm just really curious what happened. Can anyone link me to the thread where he broke the rules??
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The guy was probably on intense drugs

Hé had great stuff, but his last thread was just saying how everyone on this forum werehomo, loved to have D in their mouth while hé get all the girls. That Trump is the New God and girls have to be taken by the P... hé would write post on post about why we Were ignoring him by not replying and throw insults again (even to those defending him)

The thread got lock but hé would keep posting in it (mod advantage)

Hé broke every user, mod rules, while acting like a loser. The guy had à pure meltdown or quite high on crystalmet
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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logicallefty

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If we hadn't banned him, many of you guys would just say "He gets to behave like he wants because he is a mod". I liked Brad too but rules are rules.
 
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