"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unavoidable AW

Flyer

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hey guys.. got a question.

Whats the best way to get a AW off your back without losing access to her friends?

I mean, I've deleted and block her.. but then somehow she's in my same lectures and tutorial classes. I have ignored her where possible... but she's startin conversations and ignoring that would place me in the jerk category. (God, even my afc friend told me to smile more when talkin to her...)

Anyways, heres what happened.. the tutorial ended about 40 minutes early.. she kinda dragged me into a food court with her (touchy and feely, as AWs are). Anyhoos, I took charge, told her where to sit, buy a drink, etc.

heres what I found out about an AW: tops half. Laugh/Smiles at whatever I say, plays with hair, leaning in, lots of EC - infact, I had to stare her down a couple of times.. but, look under, the great wall (legs double crossed). saw this cus I was sitting about 1/2 a meter away from the table and she was basically leaning on it..

oh, and I have openly hit on her friends in front of her, she responsed by starting kino. I think, I am going about this the wrong way..:confused:

Should I lay down the rules and sarge on random HBs instead..? thou some of her friends are quite cute..:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Black_Italian

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I dont understand this whle attention whor*s thing. I just have sex with them and never call again.
 

Flyer

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na, the thing is.. she comes up and start talking even if I'm with my friends!

hold the phone... I think I got it figured. I'll pass her onto some poor afc! :eek:
 

spider_007

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no your doing fine, just don't step on her toes. I know It's hard for a man to ignore a flirty woman, but do your best man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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G-Man UK

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Pull out your penis and slap her with it.

Ninja Out
LMAO :crackup: :crackup:
 
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